mike1988 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Why do I not get flirted with or looked at by women? I'm tall, decent looking, outgoing but not cocky, and I am in the Military (I don't have my uniform yet though). I'm 20 yrs old for goodness sake...and nothing! Me: http://w2.socialhi.com/img/socialme/n/011/615/838.jpg
jerbear Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 You wear the uniform to the events? or take pictures all the time? Based on this and other thread(s).
Author mike1988 Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 You wear the uniform to the events? or take pictures all the time? Based on this and other thread(s). I'm sworn into the Air Force, but I haven't yet shipped out.
paddington bear Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 You never get flirted with or looked at. I'm suspecting that you are not doing any flirting yourself. A friend of mine made me do this one night - forced me to smile at every man in a bar we were in, married men, single men, fat men, thin man, ugly men, attractive men -EVERYONE! Smiling at a complete stranger felt really awkward for me before this, but by the end of the night I was wondering why I found it so awkward to simply smile at members of the opposite sex before, it's the simplest and easiest way to connect with people. So, practice simply flashing a quick smile at any girls you like - it makes you look open and friendly, they notice that you've noticed them and let the flirting begin.
boogieboy Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 So, practice simply flashing a quick smile at any girls you like - it makes you look open and friendly, they notice that you've noticed them and let the flirting begin. Co-sign....
start-fresh Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 You never get flirted with or looked at. I'm suspecting that you are not doing any flirting yourself. A friend of mine made me do this one night - forced me to smile at every man in a bar we were in, married men, single men, fat men, thin man, ugly men, attractive men -EVERYONE! Smiling at a complete stranger felt really awkward for me before this, but by the end of the night I was wondering why I found it so awkward to simply smile at members of the opposite sex before, it's the simplest and easiest way to connect with people. So, practice simply flashing a quick smile at any girls you like - it makes you look open and friendly, they notice that you've noticed them and let the flirting begin. Great idea. What kind of results did you get? I'm pretty curious because I know it makes it SO much easier to approach a girl when she at least flashes me a smile first.
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