Isolde Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 Women 20-25 are less experienced than older women; many are in relationships; and a surprising number are jaded and feel like all guys just want them for sex. The combined effect, is that they're extremely unlikely to ask a guy out. You're gonna have to pursue girls you're interested in, plain and simple.
burning 4 revenge Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 I wish I had mined more 35-45 year olds when I was his age
Isolde Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 You're attractive (I like the hairstyle in the second photo better btw), but 20 is very young. It seems like all guys have to deal with a lot of rejections, no matter how much they have to offer. Girls get rejected too, just look at this site. Sometimes it really is just wading through numbers before you get anywhere.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 You have what I would call a " cute intimidation". I think you're too pretty. Do people ask you if you're gay?
Author mike1988 Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 You have what I would call a " cute intimidation". I think you're too pretty. Do people ask you if you're gay? Never. Infact, I know I have more masculinity than many guys my age. I'm hairy and more-old fashioned. Not trendy.
bean1 Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 Older women only want sex because they don't want to have relationship with someone so young (you are still a teenager to them). On the other side, girls your age aren't interested in getting emotionally attached to someone who is going to leave for god knows how long (years?). Most people aren't interested in long distance relationships, especially when they are youthful and want to experience things.
Author mike1988 Posted May 13, 2009 Author Posted May 13, 2009 Older women only want sex because they don't want to have relationship with someone so young (you are still a teenager to them). On the other side, girls your age aren't interested in getting emotionally attached to someone who is going to leave for god knows how long (years?). Most people aren't interested in long distance relationships, especially when they are youthful and want to experience things. But...most women, especially younger, are willing to date a guy who is in jail all the time and who frequents bars. Are you tellin' me they wouldn't be attracted to a guy preparing to leave for the Military? Man...women are crazy!
bean1 Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 But...most women, especially younger, are willing to date a guy who is in jail all the time and who frequents bars. Are you tellin' me they wouldn't be attracted to a guy preparing to leave for the Military? Man...women are crazy! I don't think you can make a comparison. First, most girls do NOT date guys who are in jail all the time. If you aim to date nutjobs, then rules of common sense don't apply. Most guys your age frequent bars - hell, I lived in bars at your age! There's a difference between a guy who goes to a bar and a guy who is doing a tour of duty. Come on. Look, I'm certainly not one to knock dating a military man, but it takes a certain type of woman to handle a leave of absence. It is not for immature young girls.
jayOG Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 I don't think you can make a comparison. First, most girls do NOT date guys who are in jail all the time. If you aim to date nutjobs, then rules of common sense don't apply. Most guys your age frequent bars - hell, I lived in bars at your age! There's a difference between a guy who goes to a bar and a guy who is doing a tour of duty. Come on. Look, I'm certainly not one to knock dating a military man, but it takes a certain type of woman to handle a leave of absence. It is not for immature young girls. x2, school gets in my way. I just tell em I'm a high school drop out.The days I have classes I tell them I'm at work (college is not local). Works very well. So I'm a high school drop out who gets girls... If I was a college kid back for the summer trying to hit it with someone local, as soon as she finds out I'm leaving for school it's pretty much over. LDRs are tough even if it is only a 2 hour drive...
Rollercoasterr Posted May 13, 2009 Posted May 13, 2009 I dont know what kind of girls you're going after, but seriously...I'm 20 years old and I've NEVER met a girl that wont go for a guy her own age. Maybe you complain to them on the first date that you can't get a date other than with older women. Seriously...don't you know that girls find a lack of confidence a turn off? And don't try and say you lack confidence because if you didn't, you wouldn't be here. You'd shrug off the girls who didn't want you and keep going at it. I know plenty of guys that I went to college with who didn't have half the looks you do but just because they were confident about themselves, they went home with tons of girls every night. And don't younger guys generally LOVE sleeping with older women? A couple of my friends from college wanted so much to bang my mom that they're probably still jerking off to her picture.
Author mike1988 Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 I dont know what kind of girls you're going after, but seriously...I'm 20 years old and I've NEVER met a girl that wont go for a guy her own age. Maybe you complain to them on the first date that you can't get a date other than with older women. Seriously...don't you know that girls find a lack of confidence a turn off? And don't try and say you lack confidence because if you didn't, you wouldn't be here. You'd shrug off the girls who didn't want you and keep going at it. I know plenty of guys that I went to college with who didn't have half the looks you do but just because they were confident about themselves, they went home with tons of girls every night. And don't younger guys generally LOVE sleeping with older women? A couple of my friends from college wanted so much to bang my mom that they're probably still jerking off to her picture. Nothing better than banging the crap outta an older woman...but I've never banged the crap outta younger ones and I want to...
Author mike1988 Posted May 14, 2009 Author Posted May 14, 2009 I also might add that older women seem much more sexually attracted towards me than younger ones...nothing wrong with that...even if they are "cougars". Many of them still know how to have a fun date, along with sex, without bringing in drama.
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