ioncebelieved Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Hello all, just wanted to share this with you guys. My ex came back into my life and wow!! Not only did she drop the old I was pregnant with your baby and got abortion routine she hit me with something tonight. I got a text from her saying that she found out that her husband has a girlfriend and went on describing her. Bare in mind, I still love this woman, but there was a nice big smile inside of me hearing this. Karma has come her way full swing and she deserves everything she gets! How was I suppose to respond to it? She was not very forthright a few years ago when I fell in love with her and told me she was unhappy and getting a divorce..only to find she was not getting one. She was always telling me her husband's a good man. If he was so good why I are cheating on him and being deceitful saying you are getting a divorce? She gets what she deserves and it is hard for me to feel sorry for her.
carhill Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I give her A-, taking off for over-the-top. Nice mind f*ck. Keep on smiling in the silence.
Trialbyfire Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Jeezus iob, you've been hung up on a married cheater? Okay, now I'm shocked!
Author ioncebelieved Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 Jeezus iob, you've been hung up on a married cheater? Okay, now I'm shocked! Now Trial, you knew that! I met her when I was getting a divorce and she told me she was too. Fell in love and been screwed up since. If this latest is true, suits her justly!
carhill Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Rewind to last June: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t156071/ Glad to see I'm consistent
Trialbyfire Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Now Trial, you knew that! I met her when I was getting a divorce and she told me she was too. Fell in love and been screwed up since. If this latest is true, suits her justly!No, I don't remember that at all. Somehow I missed that thread!
carhill Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Just goes to prove even a hot-looking guy with his head screwed on right can get sucked in. Some of these MW's are real pros.....
TaraMaiden Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Karma has come her way full swing and she deserves everything she gets! Kamma does this with everyone. There are no exceptions... her, me, you..... I wish you well. _/l\_
Chrome Barracuda Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 ...To the OP your not so innocent yourself. How could she be your ex girlfriend when she was still married and not legally seperated, all she was, was the woman you was cheating with. And yes she deserves some payback, but you reap what you sow. move on, ignore this woman and do right by yourself. Also was she pregant with your baby while married to her husband, if so that says alot about her character.
jwi71 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Do what carhil said...ignore her...leave her to her drama.
lkjh Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Does her H know? If not she is prob giving him hell for his affair and acting like she is a saint.
Author ioncebelieved Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 ...To the OP your not so innocent yourself. How could she be your ex girlfriend when she was still married and not legally seperated, all she was, was the woman you was cheating with. And yes she deserves some payback, but you reap what you sow. move on, ignore this woman and do right by yourself. Also was she pregant with your baby while married to her husband, if so that says alot about her character. That was thing Chrome.. she said she was separated! I found out a few months later that she was not. Was kind of hard to walk away after that. I never wished any harm on her, but I do think she deserves this. She said it was mine and it happened almost two years ago. I am just now, well a week ago hearing this from her.
GorillaTheater Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Here's a thought (that may not be worth much because I didn't read the backstory): given the fact that she (so I assume) lied about being pregnant and having an abortion, as well as about the status of her marriage, who's to say that she's telling the truth now? Could it be some strange way of trying to get your sympathy and you back into her life?
Author ioncebelieved Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 Here's a thought (that may not be worth much because I didn't read the backstory): given the fact that she (so I assume) lied about being pregnant and having an abortion, as well as about the status of her marriage, who's to say that she's telling the truth now? Could it be some strange way of trying to get your sympathy and you back into her life? Sure crossed my mind!!! When their other dirty tricks will not work, they have to dig deeper into the nasty file. It sure has been on mind lately just as her abortion story.
MizzBlue72 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I am sorry for this. That sucks. But - I agree with the other posters: Leave the drama for her mama!!! You have to let it go.
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