kma22 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 So I have met this girl about a month ago...we went out we had fun at a party we kissed and even slept together...without sex that is. For the next couple of weeks we have been hanging out and making out and stuff. All of a sudden she starts being busy and has no time to come over...but then she invites me to her family party. After the party she still seems too busy to see me but we still txt each other and stuff. what is up with this. Am I just really overanalyzing the situation? Could it be that she is really busy...or is it that she really doesnt want to see me. It seems to me like she was into me and stuff. could it be that maybe she is afraid to get deeper into the relationship?? please help me because i am going out of my mind here. am i really just stresssing over nothing? or should i be worried?
Author kma22 Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 she keeps saying that we should hang out and stuff but never really reschedules
zhsoj Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Hmm... That I guess could go either way. Next time she says she is busy ask her directly when would be a good time for her. If she waffles and says "I'm not sure" then tell her that she should let you know when she is. And then expect to never hear from her again. If she says she has to check her schedule and she will get back to you, then you might hear from her again, but I wouldn't hold your breath. In the end I guess you have to decide how much you want to pursue someone that is either really busy or has limited interest and go from there.
BCCA Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Crazy thought - did you ever get the impression during that first hang out that she wanted to have sex? Were you aggresive, or did you just kind of do the cuddle/kiss thing? Its hard to say, but the rule of thumb is that when someone doesnt seem to have any time for you, they dont think youre worth it.
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