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hey,

i am probably the worst person for getting womens signals and have always been lucky that all my ex's made the first move.but there is a girl i really like but have no idea if she is sending me any signals.i do alot of work and shopping for her family and she always helps me with the shopping and any work i do.recently she is at her grans when i take the shopping-are these signals or friendliness?

p.s-is it a good idea to date a friend-people with previous experiences would be great...

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is it a good idea to date a friend

 

If you are ok with losing the friendship, sure. But you cant go from friends to dating and then back. If the relationship doesnt work out, you lose everything.

 

Im not sure what else you were asking...

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yeah what are you asking. Just that fact that she helps with the shopping means ummm, nothing. What is giving you the idea she is interested in you other than that. Any body language, eye contact etc, that is giving you the vibe, gut feelings, or just wishful thinking?

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how long are you going to read signals? What kind of signals are you looking for? Smth like she asks you for a date?

Start doing smth into the right direction.

Ask her for her phone# or ask her for a date.

If she says ' no', ask her again and again untill she says 'yes'.

If she never says 'yes' , be thankful and move to your next girl who is going to be much better.

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If she says ' no', ask her again and again untill she says 'yes'.

 

I would not recommend that. All you would accomplish there is an annoyed girl, or worse yet, a pity date.

 

And the dating a friend part can be iffy. I personally dated a friend once but neither of us were completely into it, and in the end we broke up but became better friends than ever.

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