SummerLady Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Ok I am recently divorced, and my ex is contstantly begging for me back, crying, calling, emailing. Its getting really really old. We were seperated for 10 months prior to divorce. He cheated on me got caught, we fought for almost 3 years so this was no shock. He sends me verbally harassing emails on top of it as he knows I am dating, he asked me and I told him yes. I have nothing to hide here I am F Divorced. I called my lawyer and he said if the vulgar emails do not stop I can sue him for harrassment. I know he is upset that he got caught cheating and he never thought i was going leave him but its over with a Capitol O. From the day I said its over I never went back. We have to talk because of the kids but really how long is this going to go on, anyone have experience with this. I thought he would have a girlfriend by now since he cheated on me for so long. Is that the only thing that will make him GET IT?????????
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Keep all correspondence and follow your solicitor's advice. That might make him get it. If not, it will still prevent him from doing this. _/l\_
Jdw_Icequeen Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Well.. I don't have alot of advice for your post. I was cheated on too and I still love the guy. I feel very confused honestly. I just wanted to say I think its GREAT that you were just able to move on and not turn back. I wish I had your back bone. He has cheated 3 times. He did ask for a divorce before he cheated but that dosent make him any less of a scum bag. I have told him to stop calling me. Which he hasnt and still calls everyday. He is no longer being nasty though. In your case I assume you still care about him, but I assume your getting really sick of the harrassment. If you do want to go the route of sueing him it will definetly be a pain in the butt but more power to you. You could however try calling the local police department they are alot of times nice enough to give them a call and a warning. That could definetly put him off. If not then I guess you have no choice but to sue him.
PWSX3 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 As long as you have kids together he will be in your life forever in one way or another. Do you reply to his emails???? Unless it is something to do with the kids DON'T reply. If you do then that is just fueling his hopes.
Author SummerLady Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 As long as you have kids together he will be in your life forever in one way or another. Do you reply to his emails???? Unless it is something to do with the kids DON'T reply. If you do then that is just fueling his hopes. I respond by saying. Do not talk to me in this manner. Our realtionship as a couple is over. Please seek counseling or someone to vent to and stop harrassing me. In other emails I have always been direct and to the point. I never lead him on, I have always been clear. Tried being nice and clear but nice never worked. Any suggestions?
Windy27 Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I respond by saying. Do not talk to me in this manner. Our realtionship as a couple is over. Please seek counseling or someone to vent to and stop harrassing me. In other emails I have always been direct and to the point. I never lead him on, I have always been clear. Tried being nice and clear but nice never worked. Any suggestions? Tell him about your sexual adventures with your current boyfriend. Casually mention them, such as "Oh, can you babysit our kid next weekend, because John and I are going on a cruise next weekend, he likes to do it on the a boat."
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