What would you not tolerate in a long-term relationship?

[Nikki Sahagin]

I just want to see how easy-going or high-strung some of us are...

 

So what kind of things will you just not stand for...or do you not like...in a LONG-TERM relationship.

 

Here are some of mine:

 

Strip-clubs/lap-dancing clubs - BIG no-no

Flirting with other girls. Having female friends etc is fine, but do not actively pursue other females if you are in an R!

Porn is okay, I use it too, but DON'T let it replace sex!

Obviously don't hit me!

Don't try to control or manipulate me.

I don't like a partner that smokes, drinks excessively or does drugs.

Cheating obviously

 

I had a friend who said he doesn't mind a girl dirty-dancing or kissing other guys, as long as it goes no further! So clearly we all have different expectations, likes and dislikes - what are yours?