Sagwa Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Last November I had gotten together back with my ex who dumped me in February. And just a few days ago he dumped me again. I don't know when I'll ever learn. It makes me feel so pitiful that I go back to him everytime just to get sacked again. I can't help it but I love him. We were doing LDR I'm afraid that when I go back home I won't have the confidence and may go looking for him. I'm a broken person. It seems I only work when I'm with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Nikki Sahagin Posted May 11, 2009 Share Posted May 11, 2009 Sweetheart (forgive me for the over-familiarity) you are NOT pathetic. I took my boyfriend back to, and he broke up with me again, this time at a MUCH worse time. First time I had the whole summer to get over it, now i've got exams and my birthday. Go figure. You are not pathetic at all. At least you gave it one last try and now you know it can't work. Its almost like it can set you free. There is no false hope over you. To let someone go once - okay. But to do it twice? They are playing fast and lose with us. You say you can't function without him. What did he make you feel/think about yourself that you didn't think or feel from you or from others? Desirable, loved, special, important, needed? etc Identify that.... Were you dependent on him? etc. You will be just FINE without him. Bad at first, then okay, then fine, then GREAT Believe me. To let you go twice is careless of him. You deserve someone who wont even let you go once Link to post Share on other sites
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