sarah8688 Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Well...here's my story. My boyfriend of 9 months (ex now) broke up with me a few weeks ago. We are both in the military. And we both are in the same squadron and live in the same barracks. We have had our troubles...I accused him of cheating in January and even found emails that supported my suspicion. I gave him the benifet of the doubt and believed him when he denied it. Well, he left for six weeks of training in march and I got surgery on my knee right when he left. Well two weeks before he got back he ended our relationship because he said he couldn't get over me accusing him. I loved him. Truely. He got back last week and this past weekend he went to the desert to ride quads and fractured his pelvis. His mom came out and I accidently ran into her when she was visiting the squadron and ever since then I have to walk by his room when I go to mine and I almost lose it. I saw another girl with him, I don't know who she is. I'm lost and hurt. I need to get over him and move on..how do I do that? It's so hard when I can't just get away you know? I see him and his truck and pass by his room everyday. I have all these fits of rage and jealousy..I know I deserve better.
Author sarah8688 Posted May 12, 2009 Author Posted May 12, 2009 I can see now that people obviously care in this world..=(
BCCA Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 I'm sorry to hear that, I know being dumped really sucks. I wish there was an easy way to get over a broken heart, but there just isnt. I doubt him breaking up with you had anything to do with your accusations. I'm sure it made for a good excuse, but it all comes down to the fact that he didnt want to put anymore effort into this. Whateve excuse he gave is irrelevant, he just didnt feel like you were the one. First and foremost, dont call him/text/email/etc. If you HAVE to talk to him because of work, then just be business like and keep it short. Next, you have to take some time for yourself to get over this. Everyone thinks you can just go right out there and find another date, but the real world just doesnt work that way. Take some time to REALLY get over this and be ok without him. Hang in there, I know how you feel.
webmuse Posted May 12, 2009 Posted May 12, 2009 Sarah, plenty of people care on here.. I didn't reply, cuz I really don't have any advice.. you're in a bad spot. Of course you deserve better. Looks like you're gonna have to do it the hard way and make it a point to avoid him as much as possible.. other then that you just gotta get thru it..
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