WhyYesThankYou Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Inspired by "Post here instead of contacting your ex!", what would you REALLY like to say to the current object of your affection? If there were no games, no "What will s/he think?", no worries about revealing too much or too little... If the person would really "get" what you're saying... What would you say to them? Post it here. Consider this one of those late-night sessions where you've had a few drinks and you're on the same wavelength and whatever you say is gonna be totally understood by the other person.
bunnzy Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 If i left my husband, would you sleep with me? I have been thinking about being with you for 2 years, and become kind of obsessed now. I want to go hang out with you and your friends. I want to make you dinner. I want to give and have massages, be held and loved by you. It is in my mind constantly. I miss you and our talks, we connect on a way my husband and I cannot. I do not think I love him anymore, it is only you I desire.
Author WhyYesThankYou Posted May 11, 2009 Author Posted May 11, 2009 Wow... that was a powerful first response to the question!! How interesting that these thoughts, feelings & questions are lurking in our minds, but for whatever reason, we can't express them to the people they're about. I can see how that one would be tricky... Stakes are high... Who's next?
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Is there any chance at all, even a remote one, that you might actually do the washing up once in a while, without being asked...?? :laugh: _/\_
IcemanJB Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I'll play. I don't know why, but I can't get you out of my head since we met 1.5 years ago. It's becoming more annoying than anything. You and I both know we have the hots for each other and get along amazingly, but for whatever reason you ended it several months ago, and then told some people it was mutual. WTF? Just know that I've been starting to date other girls, and if one comes along that clicks like we do, see ya! I'm not going to wait for you. If you haven't noticed, I don't contact you first at all anymore, it's all been you. Maybe you'll grow up and figure your **** out before it's too late, because I know what I want. That felt good. I almost want to send that to her.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I want to spent this entire summer with you because you just seem to brighten my days whenever we're together. I know I may be clumsy, but I really hope that you enjoy my company as much I do yours. I hope he never reads this.
GorillaTheater Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I just got through pounding three dozen T-posts into that concrete-like clay and stringing wire when it's in the low 90s; can I just sit here and relax for a damn moment without you making me feel like I'm some kind of slacker??
Author WhyYesThankYou Posted May 11, 2009 Author Posted May 11, 2009 These are beautiful postings. They're beautiful for the range of things we don't say to each other - from the serious to the comic-serious. And as much as we value "communication," it's obvious without stating it overtly why we can't just flat out say these things to the other person. More please...
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I just got through pounding three dozen T-posts into that concrete-like clay and stringing wire when it's in the low 90s; can I just sit here and relax for a damn moment without you making me feel like I'm some kind of slacker?? I wasn't talking to you, darling..... Hands palms etc..etc...
mortensorchid Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I'll play as well ... You know my heart still skips a beat when you come into the room. You've given so many women a bit of stress and a lot of gray hairs. You're so kind, so good, and so bad when you want to be. How I love those bedroom eyes you have. And that wonderful smile, no wonder women can't resist you. I feel like such a fool sometimes, you know I do... I love you, but I can't tell you....
OverThinker Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I know he hurt you and I know people say it all the time but I am not going to hurt you like he did. Let me love you the way you deserve and Love me the way you want to.
paddington bear Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I've been in love with you for months now, I don't think I even admitted it to myself and I was afraid to admit it to you. I hate the way we have a pseudo-relationship that is never going to actually be a real relationship. I hate the way you treat me like a girlfriend, the way you get jealous of other guys and yet won't take that small step towards me. I hate the fact that you are too weak to do that and are ruled by fear. I wish you had simply kissed me and told me you wanted me before it was too late. It is too late now.
GorillaTheater Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I wasn't talking to you, darling..... Hands palms etc..etc... And another thing, it's not like I ask you to wear that nurse's outfit EVERY night.
TaraMaiden Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Oh is that what it is?! I thought it was a handkerchief.....!!
mortensorchid Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I wanted to write more as time goes on ... I love you more and more with each passing day. How I look into those gorgeous bedroom eyes of yours and see everything about you. You radiate such an energy, I feel like such a fool, just like all the other women out there. You're a playboy, I know. But you're so ... Just so ... I hate myself for loving you. I don't know what I'll do now. I guess I'll just go on being in love with you, you beautiful, beautiful man ...
BlueEyedGirl Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I would just ask him a single question: Was there ever anything between us or was it all in my head?
ruggy Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Hmm.. Let's see... I think you really need to think of in terms of what you are looking for in a man. What you explained is someone who as smart as Einstein, strong as Hercules and compassionate as cupid. Answering this with well then I will just adopt a kid and live my life like that is not an answer either. You really need to think about what you really want out of a partner. Not this Carrie Bradshaw Sex and The City scripted crap that does not happen. Your not Carrie and you are not Samantha. BTW, in real life, THEY ARE ALL IN RELATIONSHIPS. Plus, even Candice Bushnell is married. So, if Bushnell can find an imperfect man to spend her life with, isn't time you leave planet <X's name> and come back to earth? Hope you find what you are looking for. If you do, see if you can send a woman with looks of Kathy Heigel, brains of Justice Ruth Bater Ginsburg and one with the compassion of Mother Teresa my way.
BlueEyedGirl Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 ruggy, If the chemistry, that gut level attraction, desire, connection, draw to someone or whatever you want to call it is not there, it's just not there. It has nothing to do with being perferct or imperfect or with Sex and the City. It would actually cause you much more pain in the long run if someone settled for you because they don't want to be single anymore or because you are a nice guy.
ruggy Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 B.E.G., no, that was not it. According to her, there was chemistry and attraction, but they were not burning enough for her. None the less, I posted it to vent, not for it to be critiqued. I assumed that was the point of the thread.
BlueEyedGirl Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 B.E.G., no, that was not it. According to her, there was chemistry and attraction, but they were not burning enough for her. None the less, I posted it to vent, not for it to be critiqued. I assumed that was the point of the thread. Sorry. I can sympatize with you though - I have been there too.
xpaperxcutx Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 I hate myself for still thinking about you. I hate the way that I don't even know that well, and yet you still have that effect on me. I hate that I listen to sappy love songs and think about our times together. I hate that I can still remember what it's like to look into your eyes and see you smile back. Wondering back now, I wonder if you were genuinely smiling at me, or merely smiling for smiling's sake.
MeMyself&I Posted May 27, 2009 Posted May 27, 2009 Don't even attempt to try to go there. We talked and hung out as friends and when our friendship turned intimate I acknowledged your wish for things to stay casual. I told you my only wish and/or expectation was for us to remain close and keep in touch. I asked that you continue to respect me but it appears you never did. My one attempt to contact you was ignored. So if you think I will let you back in my life again you are wrong...........because that would be saying the way you've treated me was okay...and it's not!
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