Dubsies77 Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 So i met this girl at her work at a cafe. we talked for a few months when i would go in and really hit it off. One day i decided to give her my number she texted me like the next day. Ever since then for just a little over a month we text almost all day every day literally. We had dinner a week or so after we started talking since then she has been too busy to go out yet she calls me and texts me every single day. its like pulling teeth to get her to see me..The thing that has annoyed me is she has asked me to go hang out and made plans but then doesnt follow through... she has 3 jobs and yes i understand shes busy. our schedules conflict because i work typical 9-5 job and she works usually after 10am but until 10pm and she doesnt have weekends off so shes always got some job to do.. At this point ive seen her like 6 times in a month and mostly they have been brief stops at my house for like 45 minutes or half hour. A week into talking we had Dinner out our first and only date. Then she has come over to my house at 130am in the morning and spent the night twice. one of the nights we actually had sex which i think freaked her out and i didnt expect it because we hadnt even kissed yet really on top of the fact i found out she doesnt like to kiss..it grosses her out for some reason.. I have made it clear to her that i just want time to hang out and do date things with her because i like her and its not about sex theres more to this than that for me..she said she wants to do stuff with me but never does. she says she doesnt want to come over late again because shes afraid something will happen which i dont blame her if shes uncomfortable. She will make plans with me and then it doesnt follow through something always happens. It would totally make sense to me that shes not interested and thats why we never hang out but yet she constantly texts me all day and calls me on the phone at least once or twice a day to talk to me. I dont really get what this girl wants shes very hot and cold with me and her feelings for me. She has called me baby and babe before over text and that she misses me but then never makes any time to see me other than whats turning into maybe 30 minutes she stops by to see me and then a week goes by if not longer that i may see her again...
l_jay007 Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 unfortuantely many girls do this, myself included..... we enjoy 2 text n fone u 2 flirt and we find u fun 2 flirt with because we LOVE attention but when it actually comes down to do we like u or not the answer is no its just for some mind fun, nothing in real life.... this girl is obviously using you for fun and will probley end upo going out with another guy when a good enough 1 comes along. you have 2 options go along with jus texting her for some fun 4 urself or tell er were 2 go and get a girl who really wants u
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