Curious, how many woman out there walked away from their marriage and regreted it?

[Loxx]

Im just Curious, how many woman out there walked away from their marriage and regreted it?

 

What made you realize that the grass isnt greener?

[dead-dyke]

Unfortunately, you may be waiting a while.......... but it does happen.

[GlassWindow]

Right here.

 

I've always been a "the grass just might be greener over there" person, but let me tell you it's NOT!

 

I walked out on my husband and marriage. I didn't even try to make it work. Have I regretted it? Yes. I regretted it the second I drove away, yet I was CONVINCED I had found that ever-green pasture.

 

It was the biggest mistake of my life.

[Loxx]

Right here.

 

I've always been a "the grass just might be greener over there" person, but let me tell you it's NOT!

 

I walked out on my husband and marriage. I didn't even try to make it work. Have I regretted it? Yes. I regretted it the second I drove away, yet I was CONVINCED I had found that ever-green pasture.

 

It was the biggest mistake of my life.

 

GlassWindow,

 

I am so curious about this because im am very sure this is what is/has ended my marriage of 10 years.

 

Did you think you were just going to go out there and find prince charming?

Did you ever try to reconnect?

Did you try to put the blame on your ex at the time of leaving?

Oh i have so many questions.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

I left, 4 years ago. I started to wonder if I regretted it more recently. The answer is finally no. He's a great guy, but had no clue how to be married to be, nor did I have a clue how to be married to him.

 

We tried, and tried, we both strayed (me physically, him on the internet). I know the grass is greener. I'm a different person. More confident, more successful in my career, more independant, and happy.

 

I used to think I could be happy with anyone, but that is so not the truth. I have dated, kissed alot of frogs, been in two relationships (a year each) but only now have I experienced being completely in love with someone. I would not have kissed all the frogs if I had known how good it can be.

 

The only problem now is he needs to decide if I can offer greener pastures than his wife.

[hopesndreams]

The only problem now is he needs to decide if I can offer greener pastures than his wife.

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And can you? If he were to drop his wife like a hot potato to be with you, what would guarantee those greener pastures for him? Not having a go...it's a serious question.

 

What goes around comes around though. If he leaves his wife to be with you....you'd be next on the chopping block. You've already proven to him what type of woman you are and he has already proven what type of man he is.

[MWC_LifeBeginsAt40]

We are both very well aware of that, and have discussed it to great lengths.