brokensoulzzz Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 i dont know what to say, i feel broken inside, sad angry, confused...why do i just want her back, i know she is with someone else at least one, i miss my kids, i miss my life, how do i push through this, im so hurt and confused, i want the truth and why she did this to me and our family for a new guy...and why in the world do i want her still after all she has said and done, why... please someone help me i feel as though my insides are cracking....please
KTMRider33 Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 I don't know what to say as I'm in the same place you are. I know what you mean, my stbx is in this happy place with her new man and has left me broken. She's sleeping in the spare room, and I made the mistake of coming home and waking her up and asking her if there was any part of her that was telling her what she was doing is wrong? Her answer NO............ We must find a place where we can let go and move on, I don't know where that is, and I don't know when we'll get there, but one day we'll wake up and be happy to be without them. It's hard to accept that there is NOTHING you can do to change her mind or make her love you, if she ever comes back then you have to deal with that, but you have to live assuming she wont. We must try and stay strong, look after ourselves and look to the future. Stay in touch we can do this together.
Author brokensoulzzz Posted May 10, 2009 Author Posted May 10, 2009 why is it so hard to let go of someone that has wronged you?
TaraMaiden Posted May 10, 2009 Posted May 10, 2009 because you were wrong for each other, but we always think the dumper is more to blame. maybe if she was posting here she would explain things about you. You see, until we can obtain the dual perspective, we can only offer support and advice from your point of view. And much of the time it may not be accurate or appropriate, because you know other things we do not. She is not with you because she does not wish to be with you. This is an almost unbearable truth, but it is the truth, nevertheless. So the thing to practice is to be a good father to your children, and move on with your life.
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