Tryng2Trust08 Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 I really need some insight on my situation...My BF and I dated for about 8 months, I broke up with him in January, just because I didnt feel like he was into me, I felt that way for awhile, I really liked him, but had this nagging feeing I couldnt get rid of. Anyway,we kept in contact after and we got into a lot of fights. We are at the point where he has been calling or texting every other day, all of him initiating. He came over for a hookup(I know bad idea and I wont do it again) and we met up for lunch one day(just lunch). He has made it clear he doesnt want to date me and I thought I was ok with this, but apparently Im just not. I still have feelings for him and I have been acting distant for the last couple days and I even initiated a fight with him. Things seem to be taking a turn for the worse, after things were absolutely fine for a month. I ended up getting frustrated and asking him why he kept contacting me if he had no interest in me and he doesnt want to date me. I can honestly say the way he has been acting on the phone and when we went to lunch it seemed like he was wanting more. Always asking if Im talking to other guys, etc...He said he didnt mean to give me false hope. Im at the point where I have told him to let me contact him from now on, I just wasnt comfortable with this situation. I feel like I ruined anything, it seemed like we were moving forward and I just ruined it by telling him how I felt and things were ok when I was letting things happen naturally. Any insight on what I should do from here?
Datura Posted May 9, 2009 Posted May 9, 2009 Stop the contact altogether. You're not going to move forward if you continue communicating.
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