confused one Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 ok so i met this guy like a month ago i was coming home from work and he politely stopped me and asked for my number i turned him down but ofered to take his...later on i texted him and told him he could reach me on a certain number and he texted back etc...thing is i dunno what to make of him or the situation...i have had a lot of bad relationships in the past where men take advantage o me because im so nice to them (like i take them out, treat them good not for anything in return just because i wanna make them happy and hope they wanna do the same for me too..) anyway..so because of all the hurt in the past ive decided to treat this guy different, usually im the one to make the moves etc..but this time i NEVER call him and when he calls me i never make out like im waiting for his call, i speak casually to him about work, family you know general things...we were meant to meet up last week but he called me last minute told me he had a meeting thats running over so i told him no problem and that i was tired anyway as i was...but i met up with an old friend and had a wonderful day anyway...he calls nearly every night aswell last night he started talking about his past relationships and boy oh boy are they filled with drama, he has a small criminal record because of this etc...so i asked him wat kinda girl he likes and he said he wants to settle down etc etc. then i went to his facebook page and he has soooo many girls a friends im not bothered by it as i have lots of guys as friends its just the things he says on facebook make me wonder how this guy really as lovely as he sounds on the phone...he always has something sexual etc...so last night he said he wishes he was with me in bed and i said wo...hang on a minute mate...and he just laughed it off...i do like this guy but the more i find out bout him i think he used to be a jack the lad kinda guy...he says he's not that way anymore hes changed and he feels more matture and ready to settle down...should i believe him? also his cousin is a guy i know and went school with..who is such a player and i think he might be the same...? what should i think and what do u think thanks in advance...o ye and how should i act around him..i am myself but i dont want him to take advantage hence why im doing things a little different this time
missmich Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 I'd stay away if I were you. He doesn't sound like the kinda of guy who wants to settle down anytime soon. Sounds like all he wants is sex. You can do better then him.
Author confused one Posted May 8, 2009 Author Posted May 8, 2009 hmm yeah i was thinking that aswell thanks another persons opinion does help
IcemanJB Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 I'd stay away if I were you. He doesn't sound like the kinda of guy who wants to settle down anytime soon. Sounds like all he wants is sex. You can do better then him. Agreed. The comment he made on the phone is a HUGE red flag. Who says that? I've never once asked to sleep with a girl. If you have to ask, something isn't right.
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