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Can I tell her I want it to be a date?


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Hi all,

 

I met this girl through some friends and we emailed for a few days then asked her out for some drinks. She picked a day but then it was rescheduled for a week later. I sent her a pretty cool email about something personal and she now has a lot of smilies and exclamation marks in her messages. And at the same time she suggested an earlier day for the drinks.

 

We have a lot in common and not just on the surface level. So I want to make sure she sees it as a date. Can I say 'awesome x time on y day. It's a date :)'? I'm just not sure on the whole 'its a date', is that seen as a good thing? Or should I just flirt with her on the day and see how she reacts?

 

Thanks :)

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It seems to me like you both know what this is, regardless of what you choose to call it.

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Act like it's a date and she will get the idea. I wouldn't feel the need to label it, in fact it might be seen as a sign of insecurity. Just meet her and flirt with her. Try to initiate some minor physical contact. She'll get the idea, and either go along or not.

 

Scott

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