SomePerson Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 ok, i just have 1 simple question. Being a guy myself, i find it very hard to do anything romantic with girls. I have never asked a girl out or even tried to get a girlfriend. I just freeze up everytime i talk to a girl or any stranger. Ive only had like one girlfriend, but we broke up cuz I was to much of a wuss do anything. The only girls that i talk to are the ones i grew up with or know really well. So the question is: How is it that guys can just ask a girl out or do anythign romantic with dem, better yet, how is it so ez to just talk or just hit on them or sumthing???
moimeme Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 Pretend they're humans. I'm serious about this. It's as if 'GIRL' is next to 'GOD' and every bit as fearsome. We're not aliens, after all.
vixen Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 well i'm a girl so i don't know how much this will help, but it is my experience that when i'm treated like i'm not a girl is when i'm happiest. LOL My boyfriend and i are best friends, that's how it works, best friends. Put it in your mind that this is your best friend that you can kiss, and do other intimate stuff with, if you want to. Not you have to, if you want to. First do you have any girl in mind? Is this hypothetical, or are you really having probs approaching someone? If you are then maybe we can help further, if not my thought is girls are people too, just relax. XD Vixen
UCFKevin Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 Don't try any lines. They don't work. The icebreaker's usually kind of hard for me but after that, I'm sound as a pound. If things don't work with my girlfriend, which I'm scared to death of, I'm gonna have to get back into the dating scene, which I'm also scared to death of. it's been so damn long. And being out of college now, it's kind of hard to meet new people and new women.
MrGlassIce Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 I got an idea.Seeing that its getting harder and harder to get a date become a monk and let the women be by themselfs.If dating is gonna be such an ordeal then you might as well let the women be single.Plus with all the toys that are available and alot of women starting to like women you guys dont have a chance.Be non caring,and let the women be alone seeing that they wanna make dating so hard on you guys.
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