Brady_to_Moss Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 I am going to Italy for 2 weeks with school and this girl that is really chill is going as well. We have been txting non stop for the past 3 days and decided to go shopping for stuff for our trip. Shes sweet and a cutie and i was to give her the vibe that more than friends is something i want. I know flirting but is touching and constant eye contact a must?
Yamaha Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Stop txting her all the time and don't go shopping. This will make you a buddy. Keep up the sexual tention by flirting and acting like a man ( not a gf ). Yuo must build attraction if you want more than friends.
single ape Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 dont listen to that old advice.. the "girl friend" gets laid a lot more than people who have played the tough guy would ever know about.. just keep doing what youre doing.. flirting and hanging out. Dont over think touching and eye contact or youll get creepy.. you like her, and youre going to be with her all day.. so jsut be yourself and itll show.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted May 7, 2009 Author Posted May 7, 2009 Stop txting her all the time and don't go shopping. This will make you a buddy. Keep up the sexual tention by flirting and acting like a man ( not a gf ). Yuo must build attraction if you want more than friends. I think there is deffinatly sexual tension. Since last year we would make eye contact and smile but not say much to each other. Today we were talking about the drinking age in Italy and she said...Of course ill drink with you duh! Were going to party all night . I think there is something building for the past 5 months or so.
smookie Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 take the advice to continue to be you, Hang out with her, go shopping with her. Text her. Do whatever you do but remember be you! You will find out if she likes you or not. I knnow for me I like it when I hang out with a guy. Doing the sissy things like shopping and stuff like that. I get to know his style as well. If you see something that you think would look nice on her you can also suggest her to try it on and tell her that would look hot on you Let me have the first view, try it on. See what she does. Best wishes
ParaLoveD Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Dont listen to a word from the first reply, read the other replies. Keep doing what you are doing, texting is good, it's showing each other you are both liking each other. Just keep chatting, flirting and doing things together, and you will both get to know each other better and in time, if not already, you will learn that she is into you, and wants to me more than friends. From my experience, when a girl texts you alot of days over a few days, they are already into you. Especially if she's always sending texts which require reply, from you. That way she is showing that she wants your texts.
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted May 7, 2009 Author Posted May 7, 2009 From my experience, when a girl texts you alot of days over a few days, they are already into you. Especially if she's always sending texts which require reply, from you. That way she is showing that she wants your texts. The past day or two she is the one asking me questions and starting the txts. I wont respond for a while and she will send me a txt asking about me or what we should do ect.
Yamaha Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Dont listen to a word from the first reply, read the other replies. Keep doing what you are doing, texting is good, it's showing each other you are both liking each other. Just keep chatting, flirting and doing things together, and you will both get to know each other better and in time, if not already, you will learn that she is into you, and wants to me more than friends. From my experience, when a girl texts you alot of days over a few days, they are already into you. Especially if she's always sending texts which require reply, from you. That way she is showing that she wants your texts. Yes. Keep doing what the other posters tell you and she will like you, as a friend. Then she will tell you she just doesn't want to mess up your great friendship by dating you. Women like male friends. Why do you think women still want to date the bad boy? Do you think he takes them shopping and txts all day? I'm not telling you to be the bad boy, be yourself, but you must let her see value in you, as a lover, to become romantic. Friends are not lovers.
Green Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 It comes down to being confident, the sooner you start trying romantic stuff like touching and kissing her the sooner she will either reject or accept you in that role. You can't sneak you way into being her lover by just being friendly and never being bold enough to take the risk of getting rejected and the sooner and smoother you do it the better. The less awkward you feel when doing stuff the smoother things are going
Admiral Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 I am going to Italy for 2 weeks with school and this girl that is really chill is going as well. We have been txting non stop for the past 3 days and decided to go shopping for stuff for our trip. Shes sweet and a cutie and i was to give her the vibe that more than friends is something i want. I know flirting but is touching and constant eye contact a must? Stop texting. LOTS of touching and eye contact. Touch, then back off. Two steps forward, one back. It's called push-pull. Stop txting her all the time and don't go shopping. This will make you a buddy. Keep up the sexual tention by flirting and acting like a man ( not a gf ). Yuo must build attraction if you want more than friends. ^^ This is good advice ^^ dont listen to that old advice.. the "girl friend" gets laid a lot more than people who have played the tough guy would ever know about.. just keep doing what youre doing.. flirting and hanging out. Dont over think touching and eye contact or youll get creepy.. you like her, and youre going to be with her all day.. so jsut be yourself and itll show^^ This is terrible advice. It will kill any attraction she has for you. The girls' male FRIENDS do not get laid. Also remember there is a difference between sex and good sex where the woman actually wants you bad. ^^ "Just be yourself" is the worst advice ever. If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten. Keep doing what you are doing, texting is good, it's showing each other you are both liking each other. Just keep chatting, flirting and doing things together, and you will both get to know each other better and in time, if not already, you will learn that she is into you, and wants to me more than friends. ^^ More very bad advice. Women do NOT make guy friends, and then "fall" for them at a later time. You need to be lover material right from the start. Once you are in the friend zone, you do not get out.
single ape Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 all that says is you suck at working the friend zone.. the truth is.. if she wants you as a friend, your gonna be a friend, and if she wants to get with you, youre going to get that.. this idea that youre going to playa yourself to where you want only works if you just met her two hours ago. But given more time, most girls arent stupid.. shes going to figure out who you are no matter how much you fake it.
carhill Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 Well, make sure she tries on some swimsuits and do what comes naturally for a man "Here, honey, let me help you with that"
BobSacamento Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 Texting is good and fine as long as your getting your one on one time. With touching I'm always afraid of being labeled a creeper in the beginning lol. So I'll touch after I have received contact. Perhaps when leading her into restaurant or store while holding a door or if your on a walk and there's a large step you go first and help her up with a hand. Girls are pretty clever, they'll drop hints like "Oh my hands are cold." lol
Admiral Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 Texting is good and fine as long as your getting your one on one time. It's OK when it's not overdone, and when it's not used instead of a phone call. Every other man texts the woman, you need to be DIFFERENT. With touching I'm always afraid of being labeled a creeper in the beginning lol. So I'll touch after I have received contact. If you don't act creepy, have built some attraction, and tailor the level of touching to her level of comfort, you won't come across creepy. Touching is one of the fastest ways to amplify attraction.
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