ParaLoveD Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Hey guys, 19 years of age, as is she. I've only ever had sex with one other person and that was a year ago now, but i am seeing a new girl, we haven't officially said we're 'in a relationship' as such, but we've been out together and few times and spent time around each others house. She's a good looking girl, and i am not sure if shes a virgin but i'm doubting it very much! It's just, we have been seeing each other for 1/2 months, and we'll kiss eachother for a long time, but it won't ever go further, she doesn't give any signs at all that she even wants it to go further. Do i make a move? or what? I don't really know how she'll react if i ask her either, she's a real sweet girl, just not really sure on the situation. Para.
Enema Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Make a move you big girl. She's not going to say, "pssst Para, you've got the green light for my tits". Girls like men who take charge.
Morgenstern Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 If shes shy she might prefer to make the first move. Just go for it tho, if shes not okay with it shell back off and keep kissing you. If she likes it shell probably laugh or sigh or moan and shove her tongue further down your throat lol.
yeex Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Go with the attitude that she does want sex and go for it in a tasteful manner, but if she says otherwise than back off and be a gentleman.
You'reasian Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Hey guys, 19 years of age, as is she. I've only ever had sex with one other person and that was a year ago now, but i am seeing a new girl, we haven't officially said we're 'in a relationship' as such, but we've been out together and few times and spent time around each others house. She's a good looking girl, and i am not sure if shes a virgin but i'm doubting it very much! It's just, we have been seeing each other for 1/2 months, and we'll kiss eachother for a long time, but it won't ever go further, she doesn't give any signs at all that she even wants it to go further. Do i make a move? or what? I don't really know how she'll react if i ask her either, she's a real sweet girl, just not really sure on the situation. Para. Def. make a move.
Admiral Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 Hey guys, 19 years of age, as is she. I've only ever had sex with one other person and that was a year ago now, but i am seeing a new girl, we haven't officially said we're 'in a relationship' as such, but we've been out together and few times and spent time around each others house. She's a good looking girl, and i am not sure if shes a virgin but i'm doubting it very much! It's just, we have been seeing each other for 1/2 months, and we'll kiss eachother for a long time, but it won't ever go further, she doesn't give any signs at all that she even wants it to go further. Do i make a move? or what? I don't really know how she'll react if i ask her either, she's a real sweet girl, just not really sure on the situation. Para. You need to escalate the touching before she gets bored. Work you way around her body slowly. If she has ever had any kind of sex, use a condom. You don't want to catch anything. DO NOT ask her. Asking is BAD. It kills the attraction and anticipation of the moment. Women love it when the man takes charge.
zhsoj Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 You need to escalate the touching before she gets bored. Work you way around her body slowly. If she has ever had any kind of sex, use a condom. You don't want to catch anything. DO NOT ask her. Asking is BAD. It kills the attraction and anticipation of the moment. Women love it when the man takes charge. Just make that "always use a condom". I do wonder what the genders of the posters are here. And also what a typical woman would think if you never make a move more than light kissing (not to thread jack)... Does the average woman really leave everything up to the guy? :-\
carhill Posted May 8, 2009 Posted May 8, 2009 Does the average woman really leave everything up to the guy? :-\ Not in my experience.... however that was with older women, so YMMV
zhsoj Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 I'm kind of disappointed that a woman never responded to this as it could help me clarify my own semi-recent situation. I guess I'll go with Carhill's advice. I'm not comfortable with this crap at all.
carhill Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Think about how a vagina receives a penis. Is that passive? That's what I mean about women not leaving everything up to the man. The woman's active role can be much more subtle, but it is there. Learn to read between the lines and you'll be surprised how much so
zhsoj Posted May 11, 2009 Posted May 11, 2009 Carhill I'm not entirely sure that that's a great way to explain things to me. At least I don't understand exactly what you mean by non-passive from the porn I've watched... :-\ Anyways, read between the lines... Okay... So essentially you are saying: no it will never be clear. I should start reading up on modern castration.
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