12/10 chick...for people who like to read...I need to get this off of my chest...

[engravefeelthevoid]

Hey guys ok let me be honest here I don't like to write long threads I'm always concise and short...but this has been on my mind for a long time...I really need to get it off of me and I many third eyes...advice...ideas..opinion or anything like that...

 

 

I'm a student in a foreign country...not many people from my country come here they don't exceed 100...it's very hard to find them...so i went to this international day once with some friends and i went to the french section where i saw a really hot girl standing there with her friend...I stood infront of her and glanced her few times admiring her beauty...i said I cound nver get to a girl like that knowing that I had 2 girlfriends before and i got guts with girls...suddenly she walked and passed infront of me where she had a flag with my country on it on her back...i walked up and asked her where he got it from turns out shes from the same country..she was really hot and she was surprised to know who i am...i took her number and sent her a message the same day and she responded...slowly we became friends she added me on facebook and we spoke on the phone several times...we became close we watched a movie together once...went out some 5 times to a cafe and talked...throughout this period i got attatched to her soo much...she's a nice girl with a nice personality and a kind heart...moreover she doesnt play hard to get...

 

I tried all sorts of techniques to get her to like me as more than friends...things which have worked with me several times before but shes just strong...I dont wanna hear the words "she doesnt like youthe way you do" we're too people from the same country lost in a foregn country...i want her...let me emphasize on her beauty....remember the girl from the movie "red eye" i cant remember her name...she's a copy of her...a little hotter aswell with blur eyes...she's oine of those cleopatra-like girls who has the image of a queen...first word that hits my mind when i think of her is "her royal highness"

 

She's all i ever wanted in a girl...i mean here she doesnt talk to many guys...i know shes agood girl...but hot girls are picky...and im a good looking guy...i call her once every 2 days sometimes 2 days in a row...and she responds...but im not feeling any heat from her...for example she had my falsh memory yesterday so today i sent her a message saying that i'll be at her neighbourhood till nightime if she's like i can see her////she said she'll be back at 11 pm so we might as leave it for tomorrow....if she liked me she wudve said yah id love to see you ok pass by...i'm waiting to feel something from her...when i feel that i can manage the rest...here are some angles involved in the story

 

1-if i feel something from her id take her to a nice place where wed be alone and id tell her "look *******, im not the type of guys who plays games with girls...please dont think that i wanna play you or use you...i respect you and would like to give you evreything i have" (worked with me twice before:D and wioth my friends too )

 

2-a friend told me to treat her a little firm so she can look at you like a dominant being around her (it's sexy) like getting angry at her couple of times

 

3-getting a little physical like joking and pulling her around to make her feel controlled (its sexy)

 

 

4-not calling her for few days to see how she responds///

 

 

any advice wud be great...please send as much as possible....remember shes a really hot girl with high standards and im a good looking guy with a kind heart...we have alot in common.....any solid ideas ?? past experiences ???anything would be appreciated...

 

 

thanx in advance

[JeezLouise]

1-if i feel something from her id take her to a nice place where wed be alone and id tell her "look *******, im not the type of guys who plays games with girls...please dont think that i wanna play you or use you...i respect you and would like to give you evreything i have" (worked with me twice before:D and wioth my friends too )

 

What? I am not game player, Miss Princess, but this line has worked for me and friends scads of times before! Ha ha ha that is SO funny that this line worked for you twice before ! BAD idea.

2-a friend told me to treat her a little firm so she can look at you like a dominant being around her (it's sexy) like getting angry at her couple of times

 

Is your friend young? Most adult women don't want to be treated "a little firm". Dominant being, my a$$. A man who plays anger games and fake punishes a woman is NOT sexy; he's a butthead. BAD idea.

3-getting a little physical like joking and pulling her around to make her feel controlled (its sexy)

 

Where do you guys get the idea that women want a non-boyfriend to get physical with her? Why would you think that she would find that sexy? There are times when a little bit of control can be fun, but only when it is "controlled control" and only when a relationship is firm and has healthy boundaries. BAD idea.

 

4-not calling her for few days to see how she responds///

 

The only decent idea out of 4.

 

Apparently you don't want to hear it, but she just isn't that into you, dude. If you're not feeling any heat from her by now, you aren't.

[7117]

Sounds to me like she just may want to hang as friends.I think the best thing also is to not call for a couple days.If she wants to get in touch she knows how then go from there.Its one thing to be a little aggressive that shows your interested but when you find yourself doing all the work than it's time to shut it down.

[Els]

How about quitting with the 'techniques' and just getting to know her better instead? Honestly, your approach to this reminds me more of planning reconnaisance strategies in war rather than trying to build a relationship.

 

You seem to think that just because you think you're suited for each other (because you're from the same country and both good looking and, uh, kind-hearted?!) she must certainly feel the same way and she's just 'resisting' it. Hate to burst your bubble, dude, but things don't always work that way in reality.

[engravefeelthevoid]

i have leverage...being from the same country and both beeing a little suitable for eachother proves to me that i have more options and trust me it's me who knows this...i want guidance...i mean im better than other guys that she doesnt know...im slowly intertwining my roots with hers.....dunno i dunt wanna get into a situation i cant get out of but id really like it if things do work out...

[Lucky_One]

So what that you are both from the same country?

 

And who says that you are better than other guys she knows? That sounds amazingly cocky (a big turn-off for most women), and apparently she doesn't think you are better. Confidence is nice, but boastful swaggering isn't.

 

Guidance - back off. If she wants you, she knows how to find you.