SCooke Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 So, I've been going through a really tough breakup the past couple of month. Finally went NC about a month ago (although I ran into her accidentally at a bar). I was going through all the pains of a heartbreat like most of us here. But then yesterday, I found out she was seeing somebody else. And shockingly, I wasn't devestated. Actually, I wasn't even pissed for more than a couple of minutes. I actually felt relieved because now I know that there is no shot at a second chance. And more importantly, even if she gave me one, I wouldn't take it. I'm kinda stunned at the sudden transformation. i've been going about healing the right way and I knew i was making progress, but yesterday was like a switch. I no longer feel like I need her, or even necessarily want her in my future. I all of sudden couldn't care less that she's seeing somebody (when before i was torturing myself about that same thought). I actually feel enthusiastic about a fresh start (the key here is feel, because I think my mind knew that in time things will work out fine, but today I FEEL it)... Well anyways, I was just wondering if anybody else ever experienced this kind of day, where all of a sudden everything is different, in a good way! Or if this is a fleeting moment and tomorrow i go right back to misery, I just want to document that it happened:D
jcs8528 Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 I had mine yesterday. My ex and I went thru a brutal break-up where mostly she kept telling me we were gonna be but in the end wound up shacking up with a longtime "friend" and now they are engaged. Two weeks ago I was her dream man. Lol I felt pissed for about a minute and than I realized this was the closure I have been looking for. I woke up this morning for the first time in over a year and realized what a beautiful day it was....and it was raining.....I'm gonna be just fine
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