HeartLikeLead Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 asked my bf of 5 months for a break not a break up because he majorly screwed up a couple of things. i had tried to work things out while still dating but he wasnt taking things seriosuly i do love and adore him and thought space would give him chance to appreciate me and figure things out well he got upset and flipped out and removed our "in a relationship with" status on facebook. he then took off cross country for a biz trip i wrote him two more emails explaining i wasnt asking to break up. well he has been quiet but i finally heard from him..... so last night he IMd he that his work trip is going well thta he was tired and really needed sex bad i replied i am glad things are going well i miss him and heck i need sex too. lol he then indirectly alluded to having canceled our relationship status on facebook. he asked if all my suitors are excited now i didnt take the bait he then specifically aske dif my exbf (who he knows is aclose friend and really wants to date me again) is going nuts with joy. so i wa shonest and told him no i had told my exbf that i still love my current BF. He then signed off gnight and sweet dreams why was he ASKING if 'suitors' and my ex are all into me because he removed our relationship status is off facebook ? does he want me to move on ? what was he trying to accomplish ???? also our relationship wasnt just about sex. he took 3 months before we even had sex and was very romantic at th estart. we laos had a good friendship before ever dating. so there are many layers to our history.
GorillaTheater Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 why was he ASKING if 'suitors' and my ex are all into me because he removed our relationship status is off facebook ? does he want me to move on ? what was he trying to accomplish ???? He's giving vent to jealousy and thoughts of you with other men that he's torturing himself with. You could take that as a good sign or a bad sign, depending on how complicated your situation is.
Trialbyfire Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Men tend to get this dog in a manger thing, where even if they don't want to be with you, it still bugs them when you're with someone else. If you want him back, don't play games. Just tell him you want him back and leave the ball in his court. He might reject you due to trust issues from the break or he might not. The sooner you get this onto the table, the sooner you can move on, if he's not interested.
Author HeartLikeLead Posted May 6, 2009 Author Posted May 6, 2009 Men tend to get this dog in a manger thing, where even if they don't want to be with you, it still bugs them when you're with someone else. If you want him back, don't play games. Just tell him you want him back and leave the ball in his court. He might reject you due to trust issues from the break or he might not. The sooner you get this onto the table, the sooner you can move on, if he's not interested. I did tell him PROBLEM is is that he is on the biggest biz trip of his life 3000 miles away he is having non stop meetings for several movie projects and that at night i know he just wants to have and unwind hell be home on sunday but i know he wants to see his kid. then ill be away for work next week so itll be 10 days until we can see each other maybe this will be our little break but i ll stay in touch.
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