wpnicholas Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Okay so basically i went to a gymnastics meet a few days ago, and i was sitting in the stands watching my team mates. I noticed a very cute girl but just kinda shrugged it off and moved on. About half an hour later i was poked by a random guy behind me, he handed me a small piece of paper with a number on it, and pointed to the cute girl i had noticed earlier, i had to leave about five minutes later so i said hi and i left. We've been texting and stuff and i asked her when we are going to hangout. She offered for me to go dress shopping with her and her friend. I am kinda unsure about this, i want to make a good first impression, and i dont know if this is the best first date. Any advice? please help.
IcemanJB Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Dress shopping!?!? Oh brother...if you REALLY want to do that, and aren't doing it just to please her, then go ahead. Otherwise suggest that you meet for coffee or lunch or a movie or something after she's done with that. I think I speak for most guys when I say dress shopping is probably the lamest first date. Ever.
SoulSearch_CO Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Nooooooo. As a girl, I'm going to straight-up warn you that this is a first-class ticket to the Friend Zone. Instead of being viewed as some sexy guy, you'll be the buddy who's great at tagging along while I look at clothes. I can't even get my BOYFRIEND to do that and he gets sex from me. Suggest another date.
WhyYesThankYou Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Agreed... Oh, dress shopping doesn't sound good. I wonder what she's thinking? Maybe she thinks it'd be "safe" or she wants her friend to size you up... In any event, for a thousand reasons, I think dress shopping is a bad idea for a first date. I have to say I think you may have set the tone if you just asked her when you could "hang out." That's not exactly asking her out on a proper date, either! I agree with the above, to ask her for coffee/lunch/movie, but maybe it would be worth making a time on another day? Otherwise her dress-shopping friend might hang around for your "date," and that would just be weird. Unless her friend is cute, and she's into sharing...
spiracles Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 does she plan on going to Victoria's Secret after? cause i could probably tolerate clothes shopping if i get to pick out lingerie for her to try on.
WhyYesThankYou Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Haha, if both girls are planning on a trip to Victoria's Secret with this guy giving them feedback, that totally deserves its own thread.
Shock Me Sane Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Why does dress shopping have to be so bad? Maybe she wants you to watch her try on sexy outfits and then do her in the changing room. Honestly.
era Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 She offered for me to go dress shopping with her and her friend. OMG..that's hilarious.. Tell her you'll have to pass..ask her if it would be good to go for coffee AFTER she's finished her dress shopping.
BlueEyedGirl Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Chill out people. I think he should go for it. If there is chemistry, they can have 1-1 more romantic dates later on.
Author wpnicholas Posted May 6, 2009 Author Posted May 6, 2009 I am gonna have to agree with Soul Search Co on this one, because the exact same thing has happened, i was put into the icky Friend Zone, i will ask her out for lunch or something. Someone also said that i was setting the wrong mood when i said "hang out" next time i mention " hanging out" should i say date instead?
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