Lamplava Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 So I asked this girl to the prom and she said yes. But prom isn't for awhile and I really like her and would like to go out with her first. I feel if I ask her out now and she says no then well, needless to say that would make the prom a tad awkward. So yeah... advice?
jayOG Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Yeah you got that right. I would date other people and maybe gauge her reaction to see if she is interested in you for the meantime. Have an amazing prom night and at the end of the night tell her you think shes pretty cool, that you are a pretty picky guy to be saying this, that you should chill again, and set a date. OF COURSE YOU MUST SHOW HER A GREAT TIME
Author Lamplava Posted May 6, 2009 Author Posted May 6, 2009 Thanks for the advice. Saying that would make me feel like a bit of a jerk though.
jayOG Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 haha, no problem. I've done it before and I usually get a smile. It makes the lucky lady feel special, "like wow, I wonder what he sees in me". Compliment her when you pick her up. I like your shoes... You look pretty. Open your car door... Be a gentlemen... You'll be amazed what this can do for you. Good luck.
Author Lamplava Posted May 6, 2009 Author Posted May 6, 2009 She is a really good dancer. Like she dances competitively. Do you think she would find it cute if I asked her to teach me to dance, or would that just ruin the whole mood of prom?
jayOG Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 She might, but I wouldn't chance it. You are trying to make an awesome impression on her. Get some lessons in.You want her attention on you and not anywhere else. You should brush up on your knowledge of dance if she is really passionate about it, makes good conversation. She will be impressed. Ask her questions about herself... Don't just listen, but interact. Everything that makes you stand out of the crowd is a plus. What's good for after prom, parties?!?!??!? plan a head, maybe surprise her, be spontaneous. No pressure just be awesome, she's just as nervous as you are. Or go somewhere quiet where you guys can talk. I've done the walk on the beach thing, I even dropped my date in the water. Our shoes were soaking wet and made squeaking noises the whole way back. But she had an amazing time. I forgot, humor is such a bonus. Make her laugh, flirt when appropriate. It's all about impressions.
Author Lamplava Posted May 7, 2009 Author Posted May 7, 2009 I should also probably mention that prom isn't until June 24th. So it is still a ways off.
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