SimplyIzzy2010 Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 I began NC with my ex-boyfriend last Thursday. I did it after finding out he had started a new relationship. I saw this as a cue for me to move on, and the only way I would have been able to do that was NC. (You can read my past posts for more story if you want.) Last night, he sent me a picture message that represented our most special inside joke, and nothing else. I looked at it and wondered why, but did not respond. Today, when I saw him, I was prepared to walk past him without acknowledging him. But then he grabbed my arm and pulled me to the side. He asked me if I had gotten the text. I said yes in a flat voice. He asked me what I thought of it. “It was cute,” I said, unsmilingly. Then I set off on my way. Then he ran up behind me and stuck a sticker on my back. I removed it and went to the restroom. When I came out I was walking to class and I heard him call my name. “Did you take off the sticker?” he asked. “Yeah.” I replied in my coldest voice. Not once did I smile at him when he spoke to me. Yet I can’t help but feel as if I did the wrong thing. I can’t help but feel sadness when I think he may have been trying to talk to me and I rejected him. It hurts to think he may never try to talk to me again. Yet, at the same time, if he was really trying to come back to me, shouldn’t he have tried harder? And wouldn’t he try again? Should I text him and apologize for my icyness towards him today? Or just not say anything? I miss him so much. But he hurt me so bad, and he has a girlfriend! It just hurts when he talks to me, because it gives me false hope, Yet at the same time, if he didn’t try to talk to me I would be heartbroken. Did I react in the right way when he tried to talk to me? Or should I have been warm and friendly? WHY is he doing this? I told him never to speak to me again. I told him I was going to stop loving him. I don’t know. This is tormenting me.
TaraMaiden Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Why does he do this? because he can. Find a poster called Caliguy. Read the no contact advice link in his signature. Then do everything he says. everything. That way you will heal far more quickly, I promise.
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