yeay Posted October 21, 2003 Posted October 21, 2003 Hi, I got to know this guy bout 6 mths back. He's new in town kinda posted to work here. We dated more than 10 times within 2 mths plus. Movies, dinners, watching dvd at his place even staying over(kinda unintentionally...we just talked all the way till morning). During that stay over he seems closer and taking my hand for a bit and stroking my hair and stuff thou nothig further than that happened. That was when i gave him a quick peck on the lips before i went home and his reaction was saying "wooow" and then he grab my face and kiss my lips and twice. Eversince then we finished each meet up with a peck on the lips. Recently he was away for bout 2 mths on biz trip and vacation and just came back. All along when he was away, he sent messages to me every where he was in the world. Just tot ell me where he was and whats there and stuff. Which i find is cool sometimes unexpected. He returned few weeks ago and we met for movies antwice laready once each week. The first time we met again, we went for movies and dinner and cathc up on some things. he gave me a very tight super tight hug and well comforting arm rubbing and stuff. I was the nervous one somewhat and am not touchy mebbe he sense my tension. The second time we met just few days ago...i realise not much bodily contact and its merely went to watch movie and home...kinda disappointing somewhat. I inititate the lips pecking it seems this time. I do not know if the relationship between this guy and me are just friends or wonder if he has got more interest than that. I find him a respectful person as to being rather modest. I would admit that I am interested in him but I am confused. He seems warm and nice when he was away but a bit cold when he is back here. I am interested in him but at same time i do not want to freak him out and lost the friendship which i value. I dun mind being just friends at least. Just today perhaps due to overwhelming stress I asked him what he thought if a friend decided to stay over a nite at his place to seek refuge from chaos at home. I do need peace to rest since my teen relatives staying over my place. My intention ios clearly to have a peaceful rest. Just only now i realise that he may think that i am trying too hard? Kinda feel stupid to request that to him when i do not know how he feel twds me. So anyone what do you think? Am i just a friend? Mebbe my uptightness made things uncomfy and is it appropriate of me to ask to stay over? helppp & thanks confused yeay....
VASH THE STAMPEDE Posted October 22, 2003 Posted October 22, 2003 I think you're a very close friend with a posibility to advance into a better relationship.b/f g/f ,maybe it, depends on him.
Author yeay Posted October 25, 2003 Author Posted October 25, 2003 Hi, well I stayed over...and something happened. I didnt expect that but well we got into heavy pettings. It started with him stroking me gently like a mom stroking her baby's hair/head to sleep... then he lip smack me goodnite but it didnt stop...it went on and on and well on.... He stopped but hugged me to sleep. In the morning again happened... I was glad at first but suddenly begin to think... either he is genuinely interested with me or he is a very smart player. I dunno... But do players wait so long (more than 12 dates) before he touches. Well we were frens but now seems to have gone over the border of normal frenship. What do you think? I won't rule out if he has other freinds whom he do the same with... Maybe its just me and my sketicalism....I just do not want to get hurt. Thanks
moimeme Posted October 25, 2003 Posted October 25, 2003 Next time he asks you out, ask him 'so is this a date or are we still just friends?' Find out what he's thinking.
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