gorillacupcakes Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 So I don't know if I should call her and text her just to wish her a happy birthday. We decided to remain friends but I told her we should wait for a good while until we actually act like it. It's been 3 months after a 3 year relationship and I'm still not entirely better, so I'm just looking for advice on whether I should contact her with a birthday greeting or if it would impede the healing process. She called me about a week ago and in that conversation she asked if I wanted to go to lunch, I said no, and she mentioned that her birthday was coming up...I don't know where I'm going with this...whatever.
kizik Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Hate to say it, but if you contact her tomorrow, it'll just open up more Avenues of Pain. Don't do it.
Peter_pan Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 do what you like. it will sting. i remember the early stages of my break up. any thing from her big or small would set me off. right back to square one. if anything made me worse.
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