James C Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 OK its been 2 months now and I'm still not over her! I can't get her out of my head, i just want to move on but I'm having trouble doing that. Unfortunately 4 me all her friends are all my friends so we see each other almost everyday and every time i see her i just think to myself how beautiful she looks and how much i miss her, she says she wants to still be friends and she keeps talking to me but i don't know if i should just ignore her so i get over her or if i should talk to her and see how things go with us being friends, i know she has absolutely no feelings for me anymore and she is with some other guy now and that's just making things worse, i don't know what to do, i really just want to break down...
Template Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 I noticed that in one of your other posts, you were actually in NC, and then you broke it. Unfortunately friend, NC is your only answer, and if it means not being able to hang out with your friends as much then so be it. Let them know that if she is involved with the plans to hang out, that you cannot be a part of it, and vice-versa. If they are true friends they will understand - nuff said. Continuing on this path, you'll only give yourself unhealthy torture, and it's not going to help anyone, especially you. Other than that, cry when you need to cry, and get angry when you need to get angry. Let is all out, don't hold back! Do things you like to do. Re-discover yourself, and allow yourself to be discovered.
Perrier Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Sorry to read of your situation. If she is with someone else for whatever reason I think you should try to forget her
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