Runner 3 Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]My ex and I are hanging out later on this week. We were in a relationship for about a year and broke up about 3 weeks ago. We have seen each other once after the break up. (I indicated it, but he ended up breaking up with me.) He had tried contact me after the break up, but we really didn’t talk. I did however call him to get my stuff back. I went over his house and we talked and said we would try to be friends. He said he missed me and still have feelings for me, but he wants to get his life in order right now and doesn’t think that a relationship is the best idea. It felt really good talking to him and knowing he misses me. He contacted me a couple of days after that and said he wanted to see how I was feeling and just wanted to talk to me. I didn’t call him until the next day and we chatted and decided to go see a movie together. At the end of our conversation, he said something like I am more attracted to you. [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Please give me some tips on how I should act and if there seems to be any chance of us getting back together? [/sIZE][/FONT]
CaliGuy Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Read the links in my signature file for the advice you need.
BCCA Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 Just dont sleep with him, at all, dont kiss, touch, nothing...and see what happens. Chances are, he's going to have to bail right after the movie. Listen, does this make any sense? He's willing to risk you meeting someone on the bus tomorrow, seeing as you are single, and losing you forever. Why would anyone do that if they saw a potential relationship with you? Its so nonsensical. I hope he means what he says, but it sounds like textbook BS to me. It sounds like he wants to have sex with you while hes looking for another relationship. I hope Im wrong, but Ive seen this SO many times in my short time here.
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