discombobulated Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 Alright everyone its my first post thread..u get it. I am overwhelmed by break-up issues. I am a rehabilitated woman...from love, or am I? well neway, I was violently shoved out of a two year relationship. I was dumped because I demanded respect. I LOVE and ADORE this duche, but I couldnt tell if it was mutual. I went with this individual to Australia, paid my way up there and everything. We spent a great summer together, but afterwards, honeymoon phase faded. He began to curse toward me, STARE at other girls till i got fed up and told him, that maybe he should leave me if im not good looking enough. Well one day he said enough was enough I caught him staring yet again and he said that he CAN and WILL stare at any girl he wants even with me. I dont get it, I hate that, am I wrong? I dont think I am. I dressed up sexy that night ignored him and it made him super pissed. After that night he said I have to respect my promise ( which was break up if I acted jealous even tho it was a respect issue) and said ok thanks for the ride. He didnt call me for three days til I texted him and threatend to throw his **** in d garbage, FINE. I called him on his fone to arrange a day for him to pick up his stuff. He says his dog missed me?..WTF!?!?! I said wa...um..nice i guess. That day he came with 3 books, I had a ton of stuff. I gave him back things he gave me and his stuff in a huge duffel bag. EVERYTHING!!! He reached for my hand b4 he left I smaked it away and held back tears. He left. I called bcuz he still had my belongings but his fam told me he planned to move to Ohio because I didnt give him space,,,even tho we didnt speak or text for months. Well ne way... The matter at hand is, he called me on my b-day and sent me my own cd back to me on my bday as a gift... I still hang with his brother, and his friends contact me. His b-day is coming up, should I call him, send him a card?...what should I do. We both said we loved each other and he said he'll always remember me. Is there hope?... whats a gal to do? please help!!!!
boogieboy Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 You could prolly start this relationship up again. But you will have to come to terms with the fact that he likes to ogle other women, without actually acting on it. (if he didnt already) If your honeymoon phase ended with him ogling women, I cant imagine what the would happen next with the next 3 months. I think if you get back with him, its only trouble.
Author discombobulated Posted May 4, 2009 Author Posted May 4, 2009 LOL im sure the ogling thing is not so serious for guys. It sucks for me!....buuuut that wasnt the only reason. I mean he drank and would curse a fit at me, lie to me when he was with other girls...till his friend told me. He pretty much wanted to drink and mingle with girls instead of cuddle with me. Thats why I was concerned. As a matter of fact one of his close gf's friend* told me about an affair they had about a month into mine and his relationship. The problem is I do love him tho.thanx for d advice tho!!
boogieboy Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 As a matter of fact one of his close gf's friend* told me about an affair they had about a month into mine and his relationship. Based on this alone, run like the wind. It'll be hard, but you'll get over it. Start looking around for a rebound buddy. Quickly.
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