miss-jem-bishop Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 i have met this guy called paul, we are in a realtionship and so far so good! he lives away and comes down and stays with me at weekend. he went out last night and came home about 4.30 waking me telling me he loves me etc, just being a typical drunk person, but his phone starting going off he told me to answer it but i missed it... it was only his friend james. i then texted james saying he was in bed and i went to sent box to check it had sent and there was few messages to 2 different women.... so i thought i will read them .. one said ''you look Lush Babe x x '' Then the others to the other person said ''come meet me outside the club x'' She texts back saying ''just go home now xx'' I really dont know what to think about it all, maybe its me just over- reacting! or is it early days and trying to say its over before its really even began! help please just want some advice ..
TaraMaiden Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 Well, unless you really would like someone to draw you a complete picture, I would say that you are not the only "cookie in his biscuit barrel". Are you happy to share him, or do you think it would be best to have a boyfriend who is more constant, and who you can keep an eye on? _/l\_
bluechocolate Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 Let me properly finish a sentence for you: he lives away and comes down and stays with me at weekend.... ... and goes to nightclubs without me & hits on other women. What else do you need to know ?
discombobulated Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 Okay I would confront him, and since I already know where this is going, I would pack his s*** and find a man who is worthy of you! You are too precious to deal with that garbage! Any person is too precious to waste time with a cheater. good luck to you.
sensitiveguy1986 Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 I'd gently ease into a conversation about how the club is, and things like that. If he is open and honest then he respects you, if he doesn't tell you anything about these girls then question him directly about the possibility of him meeting girls. If he doesn't give you the truth then, he is a liar and not worthy of you. You should confront him about it.
karlag Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 boys that go clubbing and come home drunk arent trust or relationship worthy.
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