lance.dark Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 So there is this girl that I see regularly who has a fiance. Recently it has seemed that she was flirting with me (can't confirm this, just a feeling). Then a week ago she asked me if I would kiss her and I told her no - not because she isn't attractive but because she is engaged. There are two problems I am running into with this. The first - is she just messing around and not actually interested? The second - if she is actually interested, what do I do? I don't know that I would be attracted to her even if she were not engaged but if she is already starting to think about cheating should I tell her that she should give some more thought to marriage? The other thing is that I'm a freshman and she's a senior so it's more messed up that she would do this.
alphamale Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 The first - is she just messing around and not actually interested? yes and yes The second - if she is actually interested, what do I do? see answer above
Shock Me Sane Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 The other thing is that I'm a freshman and she's a senior so it's more messed up that she would do this. Wait... what? In high school? If she's a high school senior with a fiance, you should tell her to stop being stupid.
Yamaha Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 She probably considers you a safe dude so she is having fun flirting with you because she figures you will do nothing. If she continues this behavior then next time walk up and kiss her and i'm sure she will freak out and back off. The way to handle it is to call her on it.
Author lance.dark Posted May 6, 2009 Author Posted May 6, 2009 Alright thanks for the responses. I thought she is just messing around so yamaha your suggested response sounds good although I'm not sure I'd go that far. This is college fyi.
alphamale Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 This is college fyi. oh, i'm sorry, i thought it was kindergarten, my mistake....a thousand pardons
Shock Me Sane Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 oh, i'm sorry, i thought it was kindergarten, my mistake....a thousand pardons Hahahaha... I don't understand how it's "more messed up" that she's a senior then. Boo.
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