shayna Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 And I still think about him everyday. The mornings are the worst. He's now with someone new, someone he can do the exact same things with that he and I once did. I've been managing to have fun in life but I'm still so sad. Over the past two years we were in contact but I cut him off angrily once he started seeing her a few months ago to allow myself to heal. He stuck to this NC and now I still miss him. I tried for the first time in months to email him just now to give him some stuff of his back (and to reconnect because I feel badly for being so angry) but no response yet- probably won't ever be. Luckily I've been able to avoid seeing them together- meaning that I have had to stop spending time with certain friends that we still share. I still love him as much as the day he said goodbye to me. We were together for almost 9 years- he was the love of my life and of course I'm afraid I'll be alone from now on. I'm 34 and female- a tough age to find someone new when most others are already hooked up. Anyone else in this situation after so long?
Biker2007 Posted May 4, 2009 Posted May 4, 2009 Shayna, Hang in there. I am sort of in the same boat. However, I did meet someone. We first met last Christmas and have steadily been doing more, but I admit that it is hard not to think about my X. The only reason was the instant chemistry. But, that just ended horribly...and I asked myself why? One reason we were not good friends. Well, I am working hard at making sure the new girl and I are friends. I find the attraction growing slowly but steadily as our friendship grows. If something happens w/ her great, if not that is fine. We are simply having fun. Something I have not done in almost 2 years. Finally, 34 is very young...you have plenty of time. Do not force things. You will be fine! I am a few years older than you and the new person I am starting to see is about 35. Good luck!
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