Passionate69 Posted June 24, 2009 Posted June 24, 2009 haagen, I am with on this. People on this board would rather judge you than give you an advice. It happened to me too. I feel like some people gere have been brainedwashed. I see same answers over and over again, it's like they all read the same book. However, let's go back to your original post. I don't agree with cheating, unless there are reasons. I've been in your situation, a bit longer than you. 5 years with at in-home boyfriend. Things got worse over years, no sex, not much respect from him or any kind of affection. I did talk to him many times and he said something about scheduling having sex, which I will never do. So, I decided to go someplace else. I'm seeing now a married man, but we don't have just a sex relationship. It's more than that, attracted to each other, friendship. I would never get involved with a man just to have sex. That's one of my principles. If you feel like you can only have sex with this guy and nothing esle and makes you happy, GO FOR IT. Good luck! Bad example..op should NOT listen to this woman. It is ok for any one to do whatever makes them happy as long as they don't hurt someone else.
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