violeta09 Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 I broke it off with this guy I had known for years. we had been friends for 12 yrs and then we let it get out of hand and took it to another level. We were both married to other people. My kids are grown, his are younger. I was living in the same house with my spouse but more like friends. He as far as I know slept in the same bed but was unhappy. He was abandoned by both parents at birth and swore he would never do that to his kids. We were attracted to each other so we let it happen. I never thought I would fall in love like I did. He said he loved me too. We were seperated for a couple of months then we re-newed the affair only to find something had changed. He wouldn't look me in the eye much, the sex changed too. I began feeling used like his dormat. There was no tenderness,just getting off was the point. I tried to address the issue but he wouldn't talk about it. I told him that if we couldn't discuss something that really bothered me, then maybe its time we took seperate paths. He disappeared without so much a word. He like things the way they were. That was 24 days ago. I'm coping better than I thought. My husband had a heart to heart. Told him everything. He wants to try again to make the marriage work. I agreed. This weekend we went away and had a very romantic time. He was wonderful. I have so much history with this man and if we can rekindle our love that would be great. I'm giving him 100% of me as I feel he is doing. No more straying.
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 So you think honesty and openness is the best policy? You think that committing to someone you love and working on a relationship is the best course of action? You think dedicating your time to one person you exchanged vows with is admirable? Good for you. rare and indeed, admirable! I hope and pray that your happiness and fulfilment increase and that you both live in joy. _/l\_
Author violeta09 Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 I am putting my heart and soul into saving this relationship. I like him as a person and I do love and care about him. Thank you for wishing me all that good stuff. so appreciated....
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