Your Favourite Smile Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 My ex and i recently split up, and he suggested that we be friends for the time being. I was a bit inflexible with this so it ended on an awkward note. Ever since this, he has been texting me most nights to check up on how i am. He still communicates in the same way as he did when we were in a relationship, and he is mentioning his interview as he is going to the same college as me next year. I just would like to know whether he is still interested in me, or whether he wants to be friends to stay friends. Im getting the idea that he is still interested in me and a relationship, but you could tell me otherwise. I don't want to be stuck in this position if he doesnt want to rebuild a relationship with me, because i know i wont be able to see him as just a friend. Do you think from this information that he is being friends with me in order to rebuild a healthy relationship? Or does he not want a relationship? Hope you can help
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 he is having his way. Why be puzzled? he wanted friendship, you are giving it to him. he doesn't need to get over anything, and he is not mindful of how you may be feeling.... why should he? You are complying.... Where is the enigma? if you do not like the arrangement, stop it. _/l\_
Author Your Favourite Smile Posted May 3, 2009 Author Posted May 3, 2009 I just want to know whether he is still interested.. Im very used to the NC, i wanted to try being on talking terms this time, see what comes of that. I want to be with him, but he has been told enough times for him not to be aware of that.. I just dont know what to do! Its my birthday soon, i dont want to be messed for that :/
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