mortensorchid Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 Recently I have been seeing this man for the last several weeks. Things are good (save for some other factors which I will not get into right now), except that he is having trouble in the bedroom. He is 48, I am 34, FYI. He says that this is the first time this has ever happened to him. Do I believe that? Not sure, but I digress on that point ... I am quick to assure him that I find other things attractive about him and that being in the sack with him is not all there is. This seems to make him happy. Solutions? He said he won't take Rxs. The over the counter stuff is nothing but sugar or salt pills. Any suggestions as to what can or can't be done?
IceWind Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 Sounds like this guy is carrying a serious amount of mental baggage and these are just the early symptoms, especially if he's not willing to take RX's. Time for a serious OPEN and HONEST communication session with this guy about his thoughts, needs and feelings.
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 he is 48? he is at an age where erectile dysfunction is extremely common, together with prostate problems. Anxiety and mentally waiting for this to happen every time now, will make the problem a lot worse. I Advise he go to his doctor first and get examined. Do not look for solutions before you know the real problem.
TaraMaiden Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 very helpful. Are you speaking from experience? _/l\_
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