Clover Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 My room mate doesn't like a friend that I hang around. She tries to tell me not to have them over and tells me off when they come around. She doesn't own the place. Yet she seems to think she can control who I can and can't have over. . What gives her the right? I feel uncomfortable with someone that they are friends with too that comes around (ex fling) but I accept that he'll still be over sometimes. I don't ban him from the place. Lol.
Island Girl Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 You don't because you aren't a person with boundary issues. Your roommate clearly is. Yes she is wrong. Is arguing with her and telling her that going to make a difference? Probably not but you can try. You should do what you can to move away from her as soon as you can.
TwinkletOes26 Posted May 3, 2009 Posted May 3, 2009 Girl tell your roomie to build a bridge and get over it. The apt is just as much yours. Tell her if she doesnt like it she can feel free to leave as soon as the lease is up.
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