This by far is the CRAZIEST relationship situation I have ever been in.

[bb115505]

Okay, this is a little lengthy so bare with me. I feel like its important to get all the details in... I appreciate any help at all. I am seriously starting to LOSE MY MIND when it comes to this girl.

 

So I met a girl who got out of a 4 year relationship with her boyfriend back in January. I didn't want to be the rebound so I made sure to take things slow - and be cautious of her. Well, that didnt work out so well, mainly because of her. Things started getting super intense real fast... we both had ridiculously intense feelings for each other and it was amazing. I've dated a lot and I never experienced anything like that. This lasted for about a month.

 

Well, out of nowhere she dropped the bomb and pretty much said she felt things were going way too fast (which I agreed) and had to take a step back and make sure this was what she wanted. So, we stopped talking, hanging out, everything. I didnt hear from her for almost two months. Well, she emailed me one day out of the blue and tells me that she felt like she had to give her ex another chance, that she couldnt take things further with me... which I was really hurt about, but I finally felt like I could finally move on... that I had an answer as to what was happening. I really felt in the dark up until that point.

 

A few weeks ago, I went to a concert in town and she was there with her ex. I ignored her. The following few days I noticed that she started getting on messanger again, talking to me, and next thing I know, all the feelings are back, with both of us. After hanging out/kissing a few times I told her she needed to decide between me or him. She picked me, said she was done with her ex.. for about.. two days. Hahahahaha. I know, what the heck! She told me she couldnt be with me, and had to give him another chance again. I swore that I was done... of course, until next time.

 

Well, there definately was a next time. I saw them together again at a church function. Ignored her completely. Next day I get a message from her about how she dreamed about me all night, how she made the wrong decision again, is screwing everything up, and ended it completely with her ex. Of course, I felt like I had to give her one last chance. I really thought she had it together finally. You have to understand that I wouldnt ever do this in a billion years if I really didnt think something was there. I am not second best and I dont settle for that. But its extremely intense when we're together... as in.. unbelievable.

 

Since then shes been a little shady... I think. She is ridiculously attractive, both physically and personality wise.. and I know that there are at least 5 other guys interested in her. She constantly talks/hangs out with them all... which is a little weird to me. We talk a few times during the week, just on messanger.. and she never calls. She told me to be assured that there is no one else, she felt like things will happen with us but she didnt feel the need to rush into anything right away. Still though, I think her behavior is a little odd.

 

Basically, I feel like I'm just getting continuously jerked around. I have never ever in a billion years been SO confused by a girl in my life. I feel like she finally has her mind made up, but I am not going to wait while she leads on all these other guys and I'm just sitting here wondering whats gonna happen next, and when. I am totally ready for her. And I dont feel the same back from her.

 

What do you think guys. Should I be patient and wait for it to eventually happen or say screw it and move on?

[carhill]

Attention-whore mind f*cker.

 

NC is your best bet. Painful but true.

 

I'll let you in on a little secret. A lot of women have multiple men interested in them. The healthy ones are mature about their interactions and honest and respectful in their dealings. The immature ones play games.

 

Move on