mas21 Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 So, i do not get my insecurity. I have been dating this guy since nov. Ever since we met in oct we had spent more time together than any other relationship ive been in. And we end up moving in together. Well previous to us meeting he was with this girl on and off for 4 years and another girl for a month before me. But the ex still was kinda but not in the picture. Well throughout our relationship she has basically been entirely too present or at least trying to stay in his life. she texts about once a month now, but at the beginning it was crazy. He doesnt reply to them and she will be like "I havnt talked to you in forever, hows meg, life.. blah blah blah". After there break up she started calling his siblings and hanging out with his older sister whom is going through some hard times with a divorce now. She goes up to his friends and asks about me. Apparently at the beginning of their relationship, she cheated on him and he said he never felt it was right. And he says that he thought he was too picky and would never find what he was looking for. And then he found me. She would go out to get other guys attention. She works as a waiter but after she found out that i have a degree and am continuing my education more, she signed up for school. His sister said it was because she was trying to be more life me. Anyhow, i dont get how im so insecure and scared hes gonna go back. He does everything right, basically the best man i have ever dated. Hes been asking me to move in for a while, and i finally did. Hes not making me pay rent, he talks about a future with me and marriage and told his parents he is going to marry me. His parents love me, they cheered to me being an amazing girl, we go out with them and go ot family dinners. A bunch of people that meet me that he knows me, compliments me and says im a keeper or a gem or what not. And we spend all our time together, he rather stay in then go out all the time, like he used to. and if he does go out with his friends, he gets upset if i dont go too. So why am i feeling this way about the ex?? It just weirds me out that i see he drive by his house every once and a while... She works close but you would think she would take a different route. It drives me NUTS!
karlag Posted May 5, 2009 Posted May 5, 2009 NOTHING is wrong with you. He needs to make it CLEAR to the both of you how serious he is about your relationship.
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