sillyheart Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 I have been married to this man for 9 years. He is 31 I am 32. I talked him into going back to school and he has. Since then, he has been more into his schooling and not focusing on his time on his family. He has become student vice president of that college and is always gone out of state or out of town. He has been hanging around younger college students that are 19, 20, 21, and 22. I also found out that he has slept with a couple of 21 year old's from his school and other places. He's been partying, and going out with them getting drunk too. We have two children one is 6 and the other is 3. I spend most of my time raising our children at home, and have tried to continue my schooling but he's been very selfish in working out a schedule so that I can attend myself. He wants to go school and only him. I have since put him out of our home. He has been living with his younger college friends, so he says, crashing on their sofa. Now he's changed his cell phone number and told me that if I want to contact him to email him. He also brought his younger friends to our house so that he could pick up the rest of his things, while they stood their watching and listening to everything we said to each other like it was a soap opera or something. So I said to them, "are you guys enjoying the soap opera show?" They didn't budge or anything, they just stood there and he's going around campus telling everyone who will listen about our break up and all of the details of it and our lives. He has even told lots of younger girls that he talks to on social networks all of our business about our split and how I'm crazy, etc. for wanting to spy on what he says and does on those social networks. He has no problem telling complete strangers about our private lives. What is wrong with him? People that I do not even know, come up to me and say, oh I've heard all about you.
jerbear Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 Serve him the divorce papers RIGHT BEFORE finals. Make arrangements to move YOUR assets to a secured location. As in YOUR assets not commingled, shared, purchased together, etc... If you are supporting him, stop the checks. Make copies of records and make sure you're ok. You can't really change the locks but it seems like he already moved out? If there was an agreement (separation??) then change the locks.
Author sillyheart Posted May 5, 2009 Author Posted May 5, 2009 If I change the locks as you say, does this mean that he will try to come back into out house? I don't know.
Heroic Posted May 6, 2009 Posted May 6, 2009 Hey make sure he gets a good degree and a good job afterward so your alimony and child support will be paid. Rake his cheating butt over the coals!
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