Choosing between 2 real nice married men

[Marteka]

I've posted before several times with my honest views on stuff and subsequently gotten so fed up with the result: betrayed spouses gone insane, rightwing nutjobs and nice wholesome American Christian types, all getting up on their purdy little high horses and presenting their jerdgements on me.

 

So I just quit posting.

 

There is so much low life intelligence that patrols around these parts, seriously...

 

But yet, I'm a bit naughty and a bit of a s**t stirrer (but not a troll, please). I am in fact an artistic type, a libertine and hedonist if you like, but not a troll...

 

So....

 

Here is my latest dilemma - I would love to know what the more free spirited of you think (as for the rest, you are boring and stuck in some time warp on virtues - your opinions will be read and probably heartily laughed at):

 

* I have quit my job and am now working for myself;

 

* at my last job, there was one yummy MM whom I fooled around with and have lately had around to my place a couple of times...he is smitten, and although he is very cute he can be such a pompous ass that I wonder if he is worth it, yet he is the guy I am most likely to fall in love with, should I be prepared to admit it to myself, because he is so darn cute;

 

* from my last job again, there is another MM whom I don't find quite as cute physically but is such a sincere fellow and we have very stimulating intellectual and sub-romantic discussions which each other;

 

* the 2 of them know each other quite well but would never dream I am seeing both of them.

 

So I really like MM1 from a physical standpoint and get MM2 from an intellectual / emotional standpoint.

 

My real fear, being honest, is that my shallow heart will fall for MM1 and I will hurt MM2 for whom my feelings are less physical and more emotional.

 

How can it be that a physical attraction trumps a more suited emotional one??

 

I think it will - but how can it be fair?

 

What do you think?

 

As to any of you who has a traditional OW hope that I will "end up" with either of them...nahhh, that is not what I mean at all...being in a long term relationship with anyone strikes me as signing up to a prison sentence for oneself.

[bentnotbroken]

With any luck, maybe both BS's will make all your dreams come true:rolleyes:

[NoIDidn't]

Bent, somebody doesn't know that sh*t stirrer = troll.

 

Oh well.

 

She did give me an idea, though. Do you think anyone would buy a video series titled: Betrayed Spouses Gone Wild!!!

 

[bentnotbroken]

Bent, somebody doesn't know that sh*t stirrer = troll.

 

Oh well.

 

She did give me an idea, though. Do you think anyone would buy a video series titled: Betrayed Spouses Gone Wild!!!

 

 

 

Hell yeah. But isn't SNAPPED kind of like that?

[NoIDidn't]

Hell yeah. But isn't SNAPPED kind of like that?

 

Nah, mine would be a play on words. Mine is going to be WAAAAAY better than SNAPPED.

 

:laugh:

[Marteka]

BNB...nice one, you have a sense of humour!

 

I feel humbled to realise it having judged you negatively in the past!

 

To respond to the substance of your message, I shall let come to pass, pass.

[bentnotbroken]

Nah, mine would be a play on words. Mine is going to be WAAAAAY better than SNAPPED.

 

:laugh:

 

 

 

I will stay tuned:laugh:

[Marteka]

And, oh so, maybe I qualify as a troll, but who the f**k cares?

 

If Satan doen't get me, guess the law will!

[angel face]

I may see the stupidity of your actions because I am outside the bubble but if you want advice why don't you approach people in a nicer manner. Why would anybody with an open mind want to help someone who comes across as having a F you attitude and a superiority complex.

 

Try asking, try being humble, just try holding your cap in your hand and asking those of us who you requested to help.

 

I have a very open mind

I won't judge you, however nor will I help you as long as you are so hostile.

 

I will wish you luck and wish those men's wives freedom and happiness.

in my humble opinion you and those 4 people involved are either hurting or about to be very hurt.

No matter what I wouldn't wish that on anyone

[sotired]

If you really have no morals and don't care...Then why is this a dilema? Bang them both...duh

[angel face]

and of course sotired has a point too:p:lmao:

[65tr6]

There is so much low life intelligence that patrols around these parts, seriously....

 

lol, I am disqualified right there.

 

You consider yourself intelligent, right ? Invite them both over to your place and "open" yourself up. Take it from there.

 

You never know. You could all live happily ever after.

[bentnotbroken]

BNB...nice one, you have a sense of humour!

 

I feel humbled to realise it having judged you negatively in the past!

 

To respond to the substance of your message, I shall let come to pass, pass.

 

 

AAAAAWWWWW:rolleyes:

[hopesndreams]

There is so much low life intelligence that patrols around these parts, seriously...

 

Yeah I agree, I just read your thread............too bad I can never get that time spent, reading it, back.

[hopesndreams]

If Satan doen't get me, guess the law will!

 

What makes you think he hasn't?

[Reggie]

You rock, girl. I say you stage extended open tryouts and go from there. Yean baby, grrrrrrr.

[seibert253]

As a right-wing nut job, and a committed, Christ loving, American Christian, I have alot of things I could say about this, but I won't. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

God loves you whether you want him to or not.

I do wish you someday find true love and happiness. It's out there, but IMO you're just looking in all the wrong directions.

Sorry I couldn't be much help in solving your current problem.

[delajoonal]

Marteka...

 

here is a question for YOU.

 

why do you only choose MM?????

 

maybe YOU need some IC, group therapy, etc.

 

why should the BS's have to go thru all this phsycological crap, when there is nothing really wrong with the BS's..

 

other than their H's are having A's with women who don't know their arse from a hole in the ground! hmmm?

 

what the hell is wrong with YOU that you can't find a man of YOUR OWN???

HELLLOOOOO!!!!!!!

ponder that one for a while smart a**!

[whichwayisup]

I say, tell each MM about the other. See what happens.

[Tony]

This thread is going to get way out of hand...so it's getting closed before that happens. I hope the OP got sufficient feedback. Many thanks!