Susie1 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Well, I knew this girl for bout 8 months now from school and at the beginning of the semester we had to talk bout our selves my first impression of her is someone who is not worth my time a couple of weeks later, i was proven wrong. Rather creepily(retreospectively) we have lived paralell lives to eachother going/having to very similar events happened to us and being so close but neve noticing the other We became best friends, with a couple of bickers here and there, as if we new eachother for years on end. but late on, She started treating me differently form everyone else. at first she it was like a positive difference and i was a bit *mental block* *aww thnks etc, later it became a lot more negative. Till the point she ignores me when I'm crying or walks off or yells at me when i need her. She degrades me and isolates me from her other friends(which i am friends with also). One event which really hurt was that one person, she barely even liked started crying and she came running to them and spent a whole hour comforting her, when she can't bother to stand at most 5 minutes to hear me whine. I know that sounded quite jealous, but I'm more hurt than anything else. I Just don't understand how she doesn't treat me as well as other people, if i say this to my older friends who dont know her as personally but are friends, would immediately fall for her fake hyper sweet persona and tell me she could never do any of the things I've accused her of. These are only a couple of the lighter examples. She also accuses me of doing the most bizzare disturbing things. She really is disturbing, yet as if anyone would believe she would even dare to. She has told me secrets and has shown me many different sides of her many have not seen. If she can do that, then why can't she even treat me like a human being?! I've comfronted her about this on IM but she just apolgises, says she would stop, change the subject and then carry on her torment after a couple of days. I know this sounds vain but no one can deny that I am too nice for my own good. I treat people who despise me with smiles and choccoaltes, quite literally but she had low self esteem before and i try to convince her to end our friendship but she just comments that she isn't that mad at me and carries on in her own little world. Recently, I dropped being nice as she made me so frustrated and a lil drunk, I just yelled at her to ***k off and I ddnt want to be near her (yes a interesting change for myself) she left me alone for a while and saiid a couple of hate messages to other ppl, but nothin serious. most of our friends really knew we we're friends anymore. But after one of our friends putting us in an joint convo with herself, us and a bunch if strangers, she expects more of me than a stranger. I made it pretty clear to her i ddnt want to be around her. All of a sudden she's put us in a sort of friendship. I really want her to leave me alone before she attempts to become close to me again. I can easily say I'm a comeplete pushover sometiumes. and i don;t know her, but i got some kind of huge attachment towards her so it was extremely hard to even attempt to get away from her. I doubt I even liek her anymore.but the attachment is still there. that if she's upset ill pick her up and wipe the tears etc. but all i can do atm is make it clear she can't touch me, the control i have in this suitation, being a brat if she touches me... oh dear. sorry for such a long passage:P
20poundblackcat Posted May 7, 2009 Posted May 7, 2009 Stop all the crying, jealousy and drama. You're friends, not lovers! Jeez. Or ARE you....? Seriously, your situation doesn't sound normal in the slightest. Very unhealthy. Back away from it.
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