biolove1988 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 There is this is girl that i fell in love with in high school. we met in high school and became decent friends. We didn't become good friends until it was my last year in high school because my family had to move away. we talked a lot and whenever our friends see us they would make fun of us for being so close.I can tell that she doesn't like me because she always tell me that she doesn't like me whenever people ask her if she likes me. At times she was really nice to me, like when she told me to continue talking to her when i moved. we never really hang out that much outside of school because i was embarrass hanging out with her because my friends keep making fun of me. so one day i told her that i like her and ask her if she likes me back. she told me that she's not interested and she distanced herself away from me. i was angry and depress because i still wanted to be her friend even though we both knew that i like her. So when I moved I didn't talk to her. occasionally she would call me and i would hang up the phone because i was angry at her. Here, i was thinking that "if she doesn't like me, then why does she keeps wanting to talk to me?" Its been a year now and I sort of decided to be friends with her again even though I knew that we can't be together. So my question is, should I tell her again that I like her, or should I just be her friend and doing so be depressed? lol sorry for the long post, but I am in a dilemma. I've grown to really love her over time, but I not sure that she feels the same. Plus I'm kind of embarrass with these kind of situation. Whenever I talk to her, I act like I never liked her so keep away the awkwardness. But deep down inside it hurts to act like that. I really want to be with her.
falseprophet Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Ok, this may seem harder then it really is. If you think you love her so much that it hurts to talk to her, because she doesnt share the same feelings as you, then you need to let her go and move on. You will never be happy if you continue to talk to her knowing she doesn't feel the same way as you do. It will be hard at first but you have to move on. One woman should not rule the way you feel for the rest of your life. You have to be your own person and eventually you will find someone who lvoes you the way you love them. When you do find someone who shares mutual feelings with you, you will forget about this other girl, happiness will change your thoughts and your life. Depression over a girl because she doesn't love you is a waste of your life and energy. If she tries to contact you and ask you why you don't talk to her, simply tell her that its not in either of your best interest to be friends any more. If she presses further you need to explain to her that you like her and she doesn't share your feeling and that it hurts you and you don't need that pain in your life. Its hard to let go of that which you love, but love doesn't work if only one person wants it to. It takes cooperation on both peoples behalf. Hope things get better for you.
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