You'reasian Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 A buddy of mine went out on a date with a woman he met at the gym. They decided to meet up at a cafe later that day. He was telling me that her personality was simple, laid back and considerate - like she was glowing at him - something he hadn't experienced in a long time. I didn't understand what he meant - we guys aren't really communicators but from listening to him talk more, it sounds like the two of them were looking for the same thing, were both really positive and fun people and they just clicked really well. What makes a date an ideal or great date in your opinion? What do you find attractive? For me, meshing personalities usually makes for a great date. What I mean by this is that our personalities fit well together. She and I share enough interests yet we can appreciate our differences and are mature/intelligent enough to handle them. For me - beautiful eyes get me all the time. Not any particular kind, but they say that the eyes are the soul of the window - I think this is true. Fragrance. Certain fragrances steal my attention too. Physique. A woman who really takes care of her body is attractive and it shows that she loves herself.
tkgirl Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 I'm not really a fan of "dating"... especially the first ones! but I'd have to say a good date for me is when I'm able to feel really comfortable with the guy... especially if he doesn't act like he's only interested in one thing! and we can talk and laugh and have fun... to make a date really GREAT is when I feel that "spark" and I know he feels it too by the way he looks at me... there can be 100 other people in the room but he acts as if I'm the only other person there. I also like nice eyes... and the way guys "smell" but that has to be very subtle... I don't like it when guys are more high maintenance that me!
shoesies05 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 perfect date: one that i'll remember in a GOOD way for a very long time. it needs : laughter, good chemistry, sexual attraction, a little bit of the butterflies in the stomach, and great conversations... also maybe even something new and adventurous. oh and fresh breath lol
spiracles Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 i think the ideal date for me would be one that ends the following morning.
loser101 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 an ideal date for me someone with a cheeky-chappie personality, gorgeous eyes and infectious laughter. a serious conversation should be part of it too just to show that he has a brain and not a flake. a tease and a laugh are essential. so basically clicking of personalities, lots of chemistry and an intelligent conversation
SpanksTheMonkey Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 What makes a date an ideal or great date in your opinion? . A 12 pack of Miller and a fresh box of AA battries!
era Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 I had a great date last night...amazing sex. Too bad I was alone at the time..
alphamale Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 What makes a date an ideal or great date in your opinion? . any date that ends in some type of sexual activity is a good one giggity giggity
marlena Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 any date that ends in some type of sexual activity is a good one giggity giggity I love people with one-track minds similar to my own!
Author You'reasian Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 We have two kinds of great dates materializing on this post: Dates that have awesome chemistry, an intellectual connection perhaps and a feeling of comfort and Dates that end up with smokin' hot sex........sometimes alone (hey, you're practicin' safe sex) How did you get the great date? - Was it a chance meet-up? - Were you introduced from friends? - Did you know each other from work/hobbies/school etc? - Was it a smokin' hot one night stand with someone you met at your hang out?
spookie Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 I have some anxiety about eating out. I know where it comes from. When I was little and my parents would take me and my brothers out to eat, they would always critisize my manners. "Look at her," my dad say with a disgusted look; always speaking to my mom about me in the third person, even though I was sitting right there. "I'm looking," she'd say understandingly. "She looks just like a little pig." "No manners whatsoever." "No one is ever going to find her attractive." "Not with the way she chews with her mouth open, that's for sure." So... I'm always very self-conscious when I'm at a resturaunt with new people. I realize my parents were crazy, but nevertheless, I can't rationalize away my anxiety Do I look just like a little pig? Is there food stuck between my teeth? Did he notice I just spilt coke all over my t-shirt? How long will it take for me to scarf down this steak, so we can leave and go do something else? I hope he won't want dessert... These thoughts leave room for no others, and it becomes difficult for me to make conversation. I'm a crappy dinner date, so I prefer alternative ideas. Ideal: something active (going swimming, going rock-climbing, even just going jogging outside) followed by cooking a meal and eating it at home together, followed by a good movie and lots of cuddling on a big couch. Followed by sex. Of course, it takes the right guy...
Author You'reasian Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 Of course, it takes the right guy... What do you mean by right guy?
spookie Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 What do you mean by right guy? Someone I have feelings for.
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