RavNouS Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Here's the quick breakdown: Went out with this girl 4 times. We made out after and during each date ( the first date was actually very good, we were both very much into each other ) After the last time we met up she became a little more distant ( very tired after babysitting a baby cousin ) and not so flirty on the phone. I text her occasionally telling her to meet me out when I'm at a bar, etc. and she always says she will meet up at some point in the night, but something always comes up. I am always the first one to make contact ( I set up each date ) and she always answers my phone calls / texts, but never reciprocates with a random call ( other than a drunk dial ) I spoke to her last Monday, about meeting up on Tuesday before leaving for a trip she was going on Wednesday. She gave me a yes, but wasn’t sure what she would be up to the next day. When I spoke to her again on Tuesday, she said her travel mate made a dinner date with some of their friends, and couldn’t make it. So, I decided to become more forceful as she is becoming very flaky and said "ok, when you're back were going to make dinner at my place and watch a movie". Her response was "that's a possibility", and I then simply wished her a safe trip and got off the phone. Now, it has been over a week since we've spoken ( I decided not to call her right after she returned, as that would seem very desperate ) and she returned from her trip Sunday night. Being that today is Thursday, and I have not heard from her, I was thinking of shooting her a funny text, or just plan calling her during the weekend. She did tell me that she was going home ( out of state ) for the weekend, so maybe its a good time? I'm not sure where I stand, as things have been kind of hard to read. The one thing I know is that I don't want to give up. Should I wait a little longer to contact her? say Monday / next week? or must I let things go? I really appreciate the help!
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