xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Why do men feel the need to always bring up the fact they're horny? Texting, phone, messaging, it's always " I'm horny". Do we, as women really need to know?
Enema Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Err.. I don't do that. Maybe you give off a certain vibe.
jerbear Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Why do men feel the need to always bring up the fact they're horny? Texting, phone, messaging, it's always " I'm horny". Do we, as women really need to know? Yes, we're horny. It is possible that you sound sexy and when you talk to them it turns them on?
IrishCarBomb Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Good lord... shoot me if I ever text/phone/message that to anybody... especially if it is actually serious.
bean1 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Why do men feel the need to always bring up the fact they're horny? Texting, phone, messaging, it's always " I'm horny". Do we, as women really need to know? Um... I'm guessing these guys perceive you as a booty call or something? Unless this is your partner, there's no other reason a man would do that...
Island Girl Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Why do men feel the need to always bring up the fact they're horny? Texting, phone, messaging, it's always " I'm horny". Do we, as women really need to know? Maybe you need to look at the quality of guy you are talking to or what message you are "sending out". Any guy that I talk to - friends or otherwise has never and will never cross this line with me. The only exception is my husband and even he is "careful" about his timing.
Lizzie60 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Yes it's very possible... I agree with Jerbear.. it could be simply because you're sexy and you turn him on.. nothing wrong with that.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Author Posted April 30, 2009 Um... I'm guessing these guys perceive you as a booty call or something? Unless this is your partner, there's no other reason a man would do that... No this is not a current partner, but past boyfriends, friends, male friends, acquaintences... We can be in contact for weeks and months, and then pop! they tell me they're horny.
bean1 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 No this is not a current partner, but past boyfriends, friends, male friends, acquaintences... We can be in contact for weeks and months, and then pop! they tell me they're horny. Perhaps you are giving them a vibe that it is okay to talk to you like that.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Author Posted April 30, 2009 Yes, we're horny. It is possible that you sound sexy and when you talk to them it turns them on? Haha Jer. I don't even sound sexy at all. I think my voice is very girly actually, like valley girl kind of tone?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Author Posted April 30, 2009 Perhaps you are giving them a vibe that it is okay to talk to you like that. No, I would never bring up sex unless I'm comfortable with that person. So no one has ever had this happen to them?
Lizzie60 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Methink they are just 'comfortable' with you.. They don't feel the need to be 'stuck-up'... or 'holier than thou hypocrits' .. they're just being normal and friendly.. no big deal..
SpanksTheMonkey Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 To me unless your in a LTR with a special some one theres no need for such things if a guy I just started dating was doing that it would be a def turn off. But fun between a already established loving couple once in a while is OK to me its a bit disrespectful other wise. Maybe its the quality of man your talking to paper the fact you asked here means its making you uncomfortable stand up for yourself and let him know...
Star Gazer Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 I think you need to change the men you're interacting with AND the vibe you're sending to these men. Perhaps establishing a real relationship with them, as opposed to sleeping with them quickly, is a godo start.
Island Girl Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 They don't feel the need to be 'stuck-up'... or 'holier than thou hypocrits' .. they're just being normal and friendly.. no big deal.. A guy telling me randomly that he is horny is hardly normal and friendly. Clearly he would be telling ME for a reason. My friends don't have this happen to them either. My brother and his friends would never be so presumptuous unless they got some indication from the girl that it is okay to tell them that. It is viewed by most as disrespectful and pathetic.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 I think you need to change the men you're interacting with AND the vibe you're sending to these men. Perhaps establishing a real relationship with them, as opposed to sleeping with them quickly, is a godo start. S_G, I don't sleep with every men I meet. I only ever had 2 serious partners in my life, and even then I use protection.
bean1 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Perhaps establishing a real relationship with them, as opposed to sleeping with them quickly, is a godo start. Is this what OP is doing? Well, it would explain it 100%
Author xpaperxcutx Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 Is this what OP is doing? Well, it would explain it 100% no bean no!!! :lmao::lmao: you guys are assuming things
bean1 Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 no bean no!!! :lmao::lmao: you guys are assuming things Sorry, I wasn't assuming! That's why I asked if that was true Are you talking to young guys? A lot of young guys might talk like that because they are just immature. Either way, if you don't like it, put them in their place
You'reasian Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 No this is not a current partner, but past boyfriends, friends, male friends, acquaintences.. We can be in contact for weeks and months, and then pop! they tell me they're horny. A lot of reasons. 1. They find themselves comfortable around you. 2. You give off sexy signals and they are responding 3. They're trying to bring you (or themselves) out of the friend zone with you. or some combination of the above.
fishtaco Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 I've had women tell me that. This particular one told me what she used to masturbate with heh. She wanted a FWB relationship with me, and that was how she went about starting it I guess. Anyway, I don't see anything wrong with it. But if it bothers you, tell them it makes you angry when you hear that. They'll probably stop then.
Star Gazer Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 S_G, I don't sleep with every men I meet. I only ever had 2 serious partners in my life, and even then I use protection. Huh? What does "serious" partners mean? Haven't you talked about two different guys you've slept with here on LS... in the last... month, or so, alone??
Author xpaperxcutx Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 Huh? What does "serious" partners mean? Haven't you talked about two different guys you've slept with here on LS... in the last... month, or so, alone?? Serious partners means men I have been in relationships with. what are you talking about? the only guy I've mentioned has been artist guy, and I haven't slept with two different guys in the last month or so, alone.
Star Gazer Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 Serious partners means men I have been in relationships with. what are you talking about? the only guy I've mentioned has been artist guy, and I haven't slept with two different guys in the last month or so, alone. Okay, so you've had sex with two guys who you've also been in a relationship with. But I have to assume from your own posts that you're more experienced than that. With all due respect, I've always picked up a sort of Samantha Jones vibe from you regarding your sexuality. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1848077&postcount=29 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1848123&postcount=31 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1848123&postcount=31 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=1835968&postcount=16 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t172417/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t187240/ I mean, one guy you were sleeping with/dating for just a few weeks, and then you dumped him. You let another guy cheat with you, via phone sex. You don't mind the occasional ONS. You help men out by "gratifying them sexually." And this is just from your threads. Your posts in others' threads reveals more. To each their own, really. All I'm saying is, if I can pick up the "I like to f*ck without strings" vibe from you through a computer screen, I'm sure the men you interact with can too... ya know?
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