justme2781 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 so my newly divorced man asked me to move in, i would love too but have always wanted to be at least engaged before doing so, what should i do?
bean1 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 so my newly divorced man asked me to move in, i would love too but have always wanted to be at least engaged before doing so, what should i do? Yikes! How to get a newly divorced man to propose? I don't think anyone will know the answer to that one Does he have any money left over in his bank account for a ring
xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Are you expecting him to hand you a ring? No divorced guy would do that unless they're impulsive.
xpaperxcutx Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Yikes! How to get a newly divorced man to propose? I don't think anyone will know the answer to that one Does he have any money left over in his bank account for a ring I bet he's paying alimony, child support, and the ex's botox surgeries.
conehead Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Tell him that you want to at least be engaged beforing moving in with a bf...that is what I told my bf when he asked me if I"d ever move in with him.
Lizzie60 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 so my newly divorced man asked me to move in, i would love too but have always wanted to be at least engaged before doing so, what should i do? What's the big deal about engagement.. you like him.. he likes you.. you get along fine.. then don't put out conditions.. just enjoy and be happy...
Enema Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 ^^ Well said as always. There's really no reason to be engaged first. Try to work out why you think it's necessary.
Lizzie60 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 and you said he's newly divorced.. gosh.. give the guy a break..
Sam Spade Posted May 1, 2009 Posted May 1, 2009 The only way to "get" a guy to propose is to be a wonderful girlfriend. I'd recommend refraining from trying to "get" anybody to do anything, *especially* engagement - it will blow back up inyour faces.
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