simplythebest Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Long story short... 1. Broke up w boyfriend 2 months ago. I REALLY liked him. 2. Decided to start online dating 3. Start communicating w 3 guys 4. Develop an ok relationship w one 5. Talk for hours on the phone 6. He calls me one day and leaves me a msg calling me by his ex-girlfriend'sname 7. Tells me that it was an honest mistake, and that he has no feelings for her 8. Tells me the story of why they broke up. I tell him my story and why I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. I tell him that I had texted him 2 days before and that I think I still have feelings for him. I tell him that I am ready to move on. 9. We talk for 3 more hours, conversation is great. 10. We set up our first date for this weekend. My question is ... Should we meet up this weekend or is it too soon. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
bean1 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Actually, this weekend is not soon enough! When you have long phone conversations without meeting someone, you develop false intimacy. This is especially bad for women as they often get the feeling of a relationship when none actually exists. Since you hadn't actually met this guy, I'd wager that his goof up was really no big deal. Maybe he was calling her? It isn't really your business anyways, you aren't even dating yet.
Author simplythebest Posted May 1, 2009 Author Posted May 1, 2009 Well, no, I wasn't mad/disappointed when he called me by her name. Actually, we had a normal conversation. I talked about my ex and he talked about his. My question was that given the fact that we were both recently broken-hearted, is it too soon for us/me to start dating?
Admiral Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 It's never too soon to be dating again. I call women the wrong name quite often. Doesn't mean I'm thinking about the woman whose name I used, and it doens't mean I ever had sex with her, either. Some men just tangle their words.
Sephirothh Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 first things first if you ever believe a guy saying it was an honest mistake for calling you his ex girlfriend name you really fail and should stop dating this guy is a moron and is probably going to play you, once becuz its a mistake Waaaaaaaaaaaaay too early in your pre-relationship 2 why is he talking about why he broke up with his ex, he is still into his ex you will be making a big mistake if you persue him, even though I have a feeling you still will but if I was you i would talk to the other 2 that you are communicating with.
Sephirothh Posted May 2, 2009 Posted May 2, 2009 It's never too soon to be dating again. I call women the wrong name quite often. Doesn't mean I'm thinking about the woman whose name I used, and it doens't mean I ever had sex with her, either. Some men just tangle their words. no its dumb and the girl should at least get p)ssed about that, it shows you can't remember someones name something that simple speaks so many volumes.
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