Lawrence3 Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 I have meet my girlfriend at school. we started out as friends and then we became friends with befits. after a while she moved in with me and then lived with me for 1 year and a half. last summer me and her broke it off. at the time of the break up we where at Austria. (her home town) she then decide to move back to Austria. when she came back to LA she came to pick up her stuff . but then we started to go out again but she couldnt stay because she had allready applied for school over there. ever since she left to austia we were consider a long distance realtionship and she would call me every day and talk to me on the phone for hours. then all of the sudden she was crying and i asked what was wrong and she said that her mom is back on H. I said that i would come to austria to comfort her. when i left to austria i was expecting to get her to move back to LA. then when i got there she was happy to see me. the first day was awsome. but then when i was waiting for her to end school i called her and texted her, where to meet. but she never replied. i fanaily got a pick up and it sounded that she was in a bar. i knew what bar she went to so i walked over there. when i entered the bar i saw her with another guy. they were both drunk and he was touching her waist and she was shuffling his hair. i went up to her and said can i talk to you outside. so we went outside and i asked her. who is that. she replied that it was her friend. and i said well can you hang out with me since i came 3,000 miles to see you. she said that she counldnt ditch him so i said what the hell is going on. she got upset and went back into the bar. i went back after her and she came out this time with a pissed off mood. then she said that i can hang with her and her freind. but when she entered the bar she told the bouncer to not let me in. so after i talk to the bouncer and said i was from LA he let me in. when i went back to where she was her girl friend was there. her girlfriend hated me. we stared at eachother for a while and she got up and told everyone the american is here. since i was the american everyone knew of me because i dated the girl i came for. but the thing is that they didnt expected me becasue they thought things with the girl i came for were over. so i went back to my girl and said why did you tell the bouncer to not let me in. she lied to me and she didnt say that. after a while she went back to the same guy and started to talk to him again. i went infront of him and said back the **** off. he backed off and said that they were just friends. my girl then started to scream at me and said that she will meet me tomorrow for bruch. i said ok and went back to the vaction house which was emety and in the montainas. after i started to call her and she didnt pick up again. when i was taking a taxi down from the montain. i asked to barrow his cell phone to call someone. when i called from that guys phone she answered. then i asked her what the hell why do you answere to a stanger calling you and not to me. she said that she wanted to find out who it was. then she told me that she was going to meet me in a couple of hours. well those hours past and she was stil not picking up then she texted me that she was going to a party. this keep on happening for the next 3 days, then finaly i got to get to go to a cafe. i talk to her and said that i want you to come back with me. she said that she would think about about it. later on she blows me off and off again. but still texts me that she loves me and all that crap. but to make a long story short. i finaly left. i stayed there for 1 week to get to see her and say her for maybe 6 hours that whole week. when i was at the airport i said that i have your keys and you should come to the airport to get them. she didnt answer me at all. when i arrived in germany she texted me and said that i should send it by the mail. tell me something what the **** happened. why did she do that to me. she calls me over and then blows me off. we have been such a good couple and the promblem is that i still love her so much. its been 8 months since this happened. and i cant get over her. sure she facebooks me once an a while but i dont know what the hell to do can someone help me to get her back or at least tell me some tips to get over her.
Juristhea Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 Okay, after reading your story, here's what I've concluded: 1.) your girl clearly doesnt give a damn about you, after the way she's treating you. 2.) you're over dependent on her, hence your reactions and actions. 3.) both of you need to call it quits before you hurt yourself more. Best thing that you can do is go incommunicado or no communication whatsoever and start healing yourself and taking care of yourself. Your self esteem may be low at this time but start hanging out with your friends, go do something you always wanted to do just to take your mind off this girl. Better yet, start dating again. You deserve better, and this line just doesnt apply for girls.
yandii Posted April 30, 2009 Posted April 30, 2009 well.. some things are just not for us. whatever we do, if we don't deserve that certain thing.. there would be no way we can have it. it's normal to be hurt but i'm sure in time it will heal.. and it will heal at a certain time with a special person. we can accept the fact that once we lose something, we can't take it back but it's also a fact that if someone left, there would be people who remain and enter our lives forever and NEVER would leave us. ^^
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